I am dating a girl that i lov andloves me. but she cuts me up and brings me down she makes me feel like im not good enuf for her. then she says shes joking. But now i have feelings for another that are better then this one. This new girl says she cares for me more then my gf dos. I dont know what to do. they both want me and i care for both but im scared if i do move to the other girl my gf wont be a friend. and that this own wont want me. They both say the love me. but the other girl is someone i can always open up tond listens to me. shes always their for me when i need her. where w my gf i dont know anymore if she even cares im alive.
2007-02-18 15:52:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're not married. If you want this other girl, you are free to lose this one you have and go out with your favorite.
If you stay with your current gf, you need to have a talk with her and tell her that there is always truth in jest, and you are really getting tired of being treated like she doesn't respect or even like you. Say you can take a joke, but she crosses the line and it's not funny any more because it's getting tiring. Nobody likes to be cut up and criticized all the time. She wouldn't like it.
2007-02-18 15:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sir, you need to go to your mother and ask her these questions. I would say you dont need friends or even girlfriends to bring you down. You dont even need to be dating. Courting would be a good thing for you. It was for me. Just remember every girl that you dated or have as a girlfriend will be combined into one person your wife. So be careful what you do with the girls that are your friends or you will be answering to your wife.
2007-02-19 00:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by flyecho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't necessarily want the new girl, you just want to be respected and appreciated. I think you need to be alone for a while. Your present GF isn't doing you any good and the other girl MAY make you feel good right now, but is more of someone who is filling the void.
2007-02-18 23:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look out playa i think you should break it down to the other girl that you love your girl and that you tryin to work things out keep her as a friend cause its sometimes good to have the opposite sex as a friend so she can give you women advice cause if u and the other girl hook up it might be good in the beginning but she might start thinking if you left your last girl for another woman why won't u do it again .
2007-02-19 00:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are toast......The grass will always be greener on the other side. There is always a better one and that is the one that you don't have. Change your attitude.......Marriage is a commitment for life...supposedly. If you are committed, there is always room for improvement.....So make your choice wisely.....get the girl that will do the most for you (I think she loves you more) and commit to that relationship......
Good luck
2007-02-19 00:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch your girlfriend and move on. So what if she doesn't want to be your friend? You'll scare the new girl off if you try and stay friends with all your exes.
2007-02-18 23:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by RIffRaffMama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and if it all fails the world is a big place with lots more girls in it .If you feel comfortable with some one ,that's the one for you .:)
2007-02-19 00:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be w/ the one who makes you love life... the one who acts & shows you they love you . the one who makes life comfortable for you . A person who makes us feel good is a treasure from Gods little gift box...
2007-02-19 14:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to talk to her and let her know how you feel
about her behavior toward you. then you can see clear of what
you need to do. but dont start something with someone else
until you deal with what going on with your present girlfriend.
other wise you might end of hurting everyone involved.
2007-02-18 23:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she makes you unhappy, then go for the other girl. Life is too short...
2007-02-18 23:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋