2007-02-18 15:42:43 · 8 answers · asked by cancer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First make you sure you have your savings/bank accounts he can't touch. Then find a new place to live, cheap. Ask yourself do I want the kids? If yes tell him you want out of the relationship and see if he will move out. If No, then you move out. Be honest and direct. If you leave he will probably get custody and the house. Talk to a divorce lawyer about the laws in your state.
2007-02-18 15:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married or just in a "relationship?"
Definitely talk to your spouse and tell him how you feel. With it being 10 years I am assuming that you are a much mature and wiser woman than I am, but you need to come to an agreement. First discuss each others feelings then when you are both on the same level, decided on the children and property division. Do it when you both have complete attention on the subject.. topics like this can be 2 minutes to 2 hours long...
Best of luck to you!
2007-02-18 15:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by tianicole671 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 13:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had 4 kids together and were dating him for 10 years then you should try counselling first.
2007-02-18 15:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Teresa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
w0w thats gonna be difficult. I dont think you want to leave him because my parents are divorced and it totally broke my heart and wrecked my family. I wish things could go back to the way they were when i was young but i know thats not going to happen. You guys should stick together for your kids sake.
2007-02-18 15:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by lalalaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to leave. If you are truely unhappy, then take your children and go. If he is good to you, then maybe you should talk to him first and see how he feels.
2007-02-18 15:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are unhappy with what going on then you need to be honest
with him and let him know how you fee. but i would have done
so many years ago. to continue to be with someone and have
childen with this guy is wrong because this will effect you and
your kids.
2007-02-18 15:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack ur bags and drive away! Don't look in the rear-view mirror
2007-02-18 15:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋