2007-02-18 15:42:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she cuts you up??? sounds painful.
2007-02-18 15:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are odd creatures.
Sometimes, when we truly love someone, that is when we feel safe enough to let them know how to be everything we need.
I expect people to be who they are normally. When I fall for someone, my expectations actually get higher for the object of my affection. He is a part of me at that point.
You do need to let your gf know how this is effecting you if you care to stay with her. She may "expect" enough that you will end up bitter with her.
Let her know that you can love eachother and still be who you are.
Just realize that this can take years to master, so be ingenius or patient.
Live well
2007-02-18 23:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her either she matures at once and becomes more stable emotionally, or you're going to move on because you won't allow her to bend you out of shape anymore each time she's in a bad mood. Stand up for yourself and demand respect for your feelings.
2007-02-18 23:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by OC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda like that. I don't really like that part of me but, that's how I am too. Its the way I was raised. It probably has little to do with you.
If you can, tough it out and toughen up. If there's one thing bigmouths like me appreciate its someone who understands us and forgives us. And better yet, gets us to stop it. shh.. don't tell anyone I just said that
2007-02-18 23:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a classic woman, nothing to worry about, you will just have to get used of it...:) seriously, she probably is seeking control over you and like you to be on the edge. When you get fed up, she loves you, when you are comfortable, she hates you...she's just trying to assert her control over you.
2007-02-18 23:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if she loved you she would actuall care about your feelings... like she wouldnt say really hurtful things to you to make you feel smaller than her pinky if she really loved you... love is caring for that person and doing everything humanly possible to make them happy.... not cut them up and give them the hate card..........
i think you need to talk to her about it... tell her how you feel.... and if she doesnt change the way she treats your heart..... she doesnt deserve it.
2007-02-18 23:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by jordanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes got ya under control man lol, guys who let girls control them are weak minded, not very good looking, simple, gullable, i get out while i can, i mean u aint those guys who think they cant get beter and let their girl do what ever she wants them to do, otherwise that is shallow man, u shud NOT think like that, ur a man, not a little girl. (lol). lmao.
2007-02-18 23:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a better girl that does not play head games with you ! In this day and age who needs to be wasting time on idiots!!
2007-02-18 23:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by SARAH♫☼ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pimp slap her always makes me feel better after drinking a few shots of vodka LOL ok ok i`m kidding just leave her.
2007-02-18 23:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. She wouldn't do what she does if she loved you.
2007-02-18 23:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by cares 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT's her hormones.
Next time she throws a she-devil tantrum, ask her if she's on the rag or PMS ing,
that should make her day...:)
2007-02-18 23:49:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋