Spying while changing?
Is it normal for your child to peek in on you while your changing?I have noticed my son (13) doing it and I dont know if I should say something or ignore it?
2007-02-18 15:31:43 · 16 answers · asked by Samantha M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its quite natural for a boy of 13 to be curious just ignore it and dont let on you know but try to stop him seeing too much.
2007-02-18 15:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You definitely shouldn't just ignore it. It can develop into something far more serious. Curiosity it may, but It's wrong at any age. He needs to know that it is. I know it would be an awkward discussion, but he needs to be informed. If you're wondering how to bring this topic up into discussion with him...then say you read somewhere about some guy being caught peeping on woman, and was charged. Then state that it's wrong to do that. Maybe you can watch a movie where there's a fella on there that peeps and is caught. Well, maybe you'll figure it out.
Good luck love,
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2007-02-18 15:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close the door and lock it. It isn't normal for a 13 yr to watch his parent changing. Other ladies not related maybe but not his own parent.
2007-02-18 15:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is normal, especially for a 13 year old boy. They're just learning about the "anatomy" of a woman, and they're curious about everything. I think it's time that you have "the talk" with him.
2007-02-18 15:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by How could I have burned paradise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is a curious age,, i would just close the door and not say nothing,, unless you feel u should then its perfectly fine to say hes not suposed to look at mommy ,, i tell mine to leave the room when im changing and there only 8 and 6
2007-02-18 15:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SAY SOMETHING no offence but at the age of 13, the dude can be looking at porn things. maybe like play boy. He might want to see if those things on the magizines or tv is real. If i were you i'd say something its violating your privacy.
2007-02-18 15:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it is probably normal curiosity. Its about that time. I think it is just the age. Girls and boys do it for both sexes. They are changing and wondering.
2007-02-18 15:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal curiousity. Just keep the door closed.
2007-02-18 15:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is 13 its not so normal, talk to him about it, has he had a sex talk? peeping toms start young, and it only gets more so with age. starts with family, then friends, neighbors. you need to talk about it, he knows it is wrong, he is old enough to know better.
2007-02-18 15:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by R. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being too curious. If it was an accident, then ok. Accidents happen. If not, talk to him or have his dad talk to him. It isn't normal.
2007-02-18 15:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋