This is weird but when I was like about 8 years old, some girl showed me actually how to kiss and makeout literally. We would then eventually make out whenever she spent the house at my house or I would spend the night at her house. Now I am 22 and I've never had a boyfreind, but I like guys.There is like 2 girls that I like and that I know that there lesbians. Is it normal to have a crush on a woman, but not all just one???? I truly love guys and hope to marry one. Can someone help me??
2007-02-18 15:22:49 · 12 answers · asked by bonjourfreind 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ok there is also a problem, I dont want to be gay or lesbian!!! I love guys alot.
2007-02-18 15:26:35 · update #1
I don't think Gay or being Lesbian is wrong.
2007-02-18 15:42:55 · update #2
I don't think you are gay. Sometimes it just takes time to find the right guy. You didn't mention how old the girl was, but I'm assuming she might have been older than you. Whatever she was, you were young and you were probably experimenting (or you were too young to understand what you were doing and went along with her advances.) Whatever happened, experimenting does not make you a lesbian. Based on what you said, you are most likely a bisexual, meaning you have little or no gender preference choosing a lover. It's common for bisexuals to still romantically or physically prefer one gender to the other, but they don't settle on one exclusive gender. In short, they are open for the 'best of both worlds', yet might still feel more attached to one 'world' than the other.
2007-02-18 16:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you WANT to be a lesbian? Are you saying it's wrong?
Am I wrong for being one--should I change???
Maybe you are a lesbian, and you think that people and society will not accept you... well, that's their problem.
Only you know the truth about yourself, but it SOUNDS like you may be lesbian or bi... if you are, accept it and be proud of it.
Denial will only harm you in the long run.
2007-02-18 23:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Rissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Almighty YHVH created this world very good. Once man sinned, he could no longer meet the requirements of YHVH. Because of His great love for man, He sent His son the Savior. The Savior's name means YHVH is my Savior!--YAHOSHUA! The only way one can have his sins taken care of is to invite the Savior in to carry them. If a person chooses to remain attached to their sins, they will be consumed in the cleansing fire the Almighty will send to cleanse this world so He can make it new! How could the Almighty be more generous?
It is normal to feel affection for someone of the same sex. It is perversion to express that affection sexually. The Almighty gave men a great gift in love sex and marriage. If you take it apart, you destroy it!
2007-02-18 23:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound gay to me and the reason why u like that two lesbians is coz u feel happy to know that u r not the only gay one
2007-02-18 23:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want to marry a man then find one and commit. I suggest you start with a self-imposed celibacy period in order to get your head together and set your sights on your goal.
2007-02-18 23:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the guys, no woman should lay with another woman. Same for men.
2007-02-18 23:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Deutsche359 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try dating only guys and see if that is your trueself. Sounds as if your friend was sexually abused.
2007-02-18 23:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're bi-curious, if you're comfortable with yourself, do a little experimenting. As long as you're safe it couldn't hurt, and you just need to find your comfort zone.
2007-02-19 00:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are gay/lesbian, thats okay, you know? just be whatever makes you happy
2007-02-18 23:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by jane doe doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No......You just like to have fun! Don't worry about labels.
2007-02-18 23:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋