Ohhh.......
Well, loads of things should tip someone off....
Hiding the cell phone bill, deleting text messages, unexpected phone calls, silence on the other end if you pick up, or they get a load of "wrong numbers" and then leave.
Clothes have a different smell or makeup marks on them. Or..maybe you notice that he even has on a different shirt than when he left......you ask why? He says.."Awww, I spilled something on it", but he never produces the shirt. Style of clothing may change, goes from boxers to something totally different. Especially if he's wearing those on certain days, or even goes out and buys himself something new. Lots of men don't shop for themselves if they are married.
Coming home later than usual, leaving earlier than usual, working alot of overtime, but it isn't showing up on his check. Long lunches.....or isn't where he says he was....
The one I love, is they start picking fights...over the littlest of things, this is usually for two different reasons, 1) it gives them an excuse to justify their actions, or 2) gives them an excuse to leave the house to "get some air".
And..lets not forget,....either no sex, or a change in sexual style. Girlfriends tend to teach old dogs new tricks...
But..there are lots of ways to catch them...you just have to play the game their way.....
2007-02-18 15:25:30
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answered by Stephanie 3
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Anything he does that he normaly wouldn't do !!! Something different and your like " He has never done this before" !! There are other signs but some don't show any cause there smart and know you will catch on !! some will treat you really good and make you think " He's to good to me so he wouldn't be cheating" and yes he can !!! you can also look up more about other signs on the net by doing a search on your question! Good Luck! And if your wondering if he is cheating that too can be a good sign that he may be!!! cause something is making you wonder ???
2007-02-18 15:19:03
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answered by monkeymomma46 5
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I just went through this. When you know, you know. All those strange excuses, actions, and coincidences you are noticing never end up like in the movies when everyone laughs about it later on. Get a keylogger on your computer. You will find out everything, passwords, chat messages, screenshots....everything. You can then DL the cell phone bills and cross-reference the numbers and maybe even see the texts. Use it to see when he uses the phone, then look at the bill. You can use deductive reasoning to figure out all kinds of stuff that you never could have with only a small amount of info. I used it, and it worked superbly. Do it now. Don't wait another second. You can DL them and make them invisible as well as passwod protect them. I'll have one on my PC for the rest of my life. Just search for one and then DL it. You can pay with your card and then just set it up. It's simple. Trust me.
2007-02-18 16:00:27
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answered by Martyr Machine 3
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Not being able to look you in the eye. Being distant and elusive. Unusual phone bill numbers or hang ups. He is concerned about his looks more than usual. New scents on him. Make up on his shirt. Not being where he said is was/is. A gut feeling. Too many to list. Don't know for sure if my husband ever cheated (can you ever?) but know husbands who have and this is what I am told by their wives or ex-wives now. I've also read about it. Hope not for your sake. If you suspect and can afford it, get a private eye. Can't be too careful with diseases and such nowadays. So I would try to find out. Good luck.
2007-02-18 15:19:41
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answered by angelina123 2
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nicely, who employed the child sitter? Did he interview and determine? What have been her references? What became into his rationalization for wanting to hire one? To get yet another interest that might actually assist you and take stress off you or to have 'play' time? i'd upload somewhat greater factor to this question and additionally in the event that they are greater shielding than could have been that's a popular sign of cheating. Who will pay for the babysitter? You? are you able to have the money for this? i'd save my eyes open and that i'd clarify till there's a infant in the mattress room there is not any rationalization for her to be in there era. additionally, the massive question is that if HE became into there together with her then why the hell do you like a babysitter? Smells fishy.... I agree. ok, only study your updates. take a seat them the two down and confront them jointly. era. i'd have ended up in penitentiary if that occurred to me, yet sturdy for you for containing it jointly and only being suchabitch. hearth her. If he does not like it, tell him he can hit the line too. that is only wayyyyyyyyyy pushing it... and that i'd say alot of the different innovations are super. Hidden digicam is a super way. Circuit city and not that costly.
2016-11-23 17:48:55
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answered by ? 4
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First is lying to you, second is drastic change in habits, and ignoring your needs. A new or old "friend" he seems to be suddenly hanging out with more than often is a sure tale sign. He will not be able to look you in the eye is a another good sign.
2007-02-18 15:22:04
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answered by St.Jeb 4
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It's hard for him to cheat without his car, his phone, and some money.
Check the cell phone bill, check the car mileage, and check the credit card and ATM logs. That way you won't have to rely on some goofy quiz from Cosmo on "signs he's cheating, girl" - you'll at least have some hard data.
2007-02-18 15:28:51
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answered by Anonymous
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They start coming home from work later and later. They make more excuses in not being home.
They either just stop having sex, or they get very sexual out of the blue.
More money being spent, but you don't see where it's going.
Check credit cards, cell phone bills,
2007-02-18 15:16:55
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answered by peggin_beast 6
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my mom got first hand expriance on this so i will let her answer:
lying sneaking to use the phone erasing all calls on cell phones get mad when you dont go to work not coming home from work on time and no extra pay forgeting his story and changing it when reasked leaving kids home alone when you are at work and will not tell you the truth and kids will say he did always belive the kids if you have any.
2007-02-18 15:17:10
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answered by mike h 1
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a change in behavior--having to work later than normal, having a change in personality that cannot be easily explained. the main thing is change.
2007-02-18 15:20:11
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answered by heyrobo 6
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