What is up with Pisces guys!!!!?

Question

This Pisces takes after his fish symbol so well... He just swims away off into his own little world. He seems affectionate and interested, but when I turn my head the other way, he breaks my heart.

I am a Virgo and I just don't understand what is up with him. I keep bringing back feelings for him, and keep getting my heart broken... i just cannot let this guy go... I wish I could move away, but I can't.

Help me!

Answer 1

I dated a couple of Pisces guys, and I just LOVED them. Until they kept doing that hot/cold, on/off thing that you describe so that the relationships were filled with high drama. Eventually, I just got bored with them and ended the relationships. I'm a Scorpio, and we're passionate but don't like being jerked around. I'll never date a Pisces again.

Virgo, you are too good for that. (I have Virgo moon and love other Virgos!) Try to let go. You'll be happier. A previous poster said Pisces men have emotional problems, and I have to wonder if it's not true.

Answer 2

You are soooooooooo right about Pisces. I was with a Pisces . He was so sweet, I loved him so much, and I thought he loved me. He gave me everything I wanted. He bought us a beautiful house. We were going to get married... Then I got pregnant and everything changed. He began to hit me. Then I went in to premature labor. I was in the hospital for a day. The baby was okay thank God. But when I got out , I found out he was seeing another woman during that time. That broke my heart so badly you have no idea. I never knew this side of him. I thought I would die. But I moved on, Got my own place and My own life, My daughter is 4 years old now, and she is my world! That pisces guy ain't **** to me no more. I am happy now. I can't imagine what I ever saw in him. And I am sorry for telling my whole story to you, But I just want to tell you ,that no matter what you feel for him now, you can feel completely different in a few years. Remember your life is all that matters, not some jerk like him. You can be happy, alot happier then you think right now. I say this from experience. Good luck!

Answer 3

Ach, it really just comes down to the type of person he is, regardless of sun sign. He's either just not that evolved yet and hasn't figured himself out yet, or...or he's like that old saying: "When he's good, he's very good, but when he's bad, he's horrid!"

The question you need to ask yourself is - can you live without seeing him and throwing yourself back into the heartache? Or do you have to rush headlong into the drama that you know will happen? Why is THIS guy the one you've set your heart on?

You don't need that kind of drama. I'm not saying you're supposed to shut off your feelings for him, but this'll end one way or another eventually - and maybe you can make it end on your own terms. Confront him with how you feel and ask him what his deal is. You've got nothing to lose at this point. And you deserve to know.

It's your right to decide that you don't want to wait around for a chance that he'll turn into the kind of person you want him to be.

Answer 4

Well, if you are into astrology, then let me tell you something: Piscians are dreamy souls who drift into their own world whereas Virgos are practical and would love to see results on earth rather than in dreams.

The best way to deal with such situations is to talk things over. There's nothing like it! Tell him that you'd like to talk to him and take him to to a private place where he doesn't get diverted. Now, tell him how much you care for him and talk to him about his attitude that's hurting you. Tell him that he'd know about your feelings much better if he stands in your shoes, and ask him if if he'd ignore someone who cares for him. He's already doing so but is not aware of it!

I'm sure talking things over, works out well in building good relationships and the last thing that I'd want to do is break up.

Anyway, it's good to find such nice people like you and I won't let you go if I were him. If he can't spot a diamond when it's shown to him, tell him what a diamond is and if he still doesn't care, it's his loss. Please don't scratch your feelings, many people know that you're precious!

The world belongs to you! :-)

Answer 5

I think you are intrigued by his mystery. Let me help you solve it..

Pisces have emotional problems. The fish swims up and down stream. Water represents emotion. Pisces swim with and against the current- simultaneously, this represents emotional struggle. Example, Kirk Cobain was a Pisces and he ended up shooting himself.

My advice- stay away from water signs..Cancer, Pisces and Scorpio.
You are an earth sign- you are suppose to be practical.
Dump the emotional baggage and find something worthy of your affection and time.

Answer 6

they aren't all two faced - it depends on the person. pisces in general are mysterious, don't like confrontation and don't like to reveal a lot about themselves. they are too sensitive. same goes for girls. anyways if your at school/college/uni... people sometimes hide their feelings with a fake smile so no-one asks q's...basically you never know what someone is thinking and i agree with you that pisces are the worse at this so i get why you think they are two faced.

Answer 7

I had that happen to me. I dated a Pices guy. He was so attentive and devoted then just out of the blue he left and I haven't heard from him since.

I'm a Leo and it took me awhile to figure out that it was over and yes it hurt but I moved on. Pices guys are insecure and they (when they think they are hurt or feel vulnerable) they will put up walls and turn away without looking back!

Answer 8

Face it: Pisces guys are all wet. They're hard to catch; a pain to reel in; & JUST when you think you've landed them- they slip off the hook! Keep trying though. Sooner or later, you're bound to catch the Great White Hunk!!! Good Luck! :)

Answer 9

I'm pisces but I really don't belieave in horoscopes

Answer 10

Shame on him if he hurt you once, shame on you if he hurt you twice.