Is it possible to be attracted to two people at the same time. Can you cheat on someone that you love? Lets be real, a woman doesn't cheat unless there is something lacking in her current relationship. It's not like men who cheat just to cheat.
2007-02-18 14:58:47 · 13 answers · asked by Girlwoman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I suppose that it is possible. Personally, I would not do it if I loved the girl. To do so, would be to disrespect her and to violate the mutual trust which we had in each other. If I expect her to be honest and loyal , she should expect the same from me. Cheating is cheating no matter how you try to rationalize it.
2007-02-18 15:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I may be a guy, but I'm proud to admit, that I'm very in touch with my emotions. If I were to live without any emotions, or any sort of feeling... let's face it, I'd go insane. Now as for your question, I believe that yes, it is possible to be attracted to two people at once. Can you cheat on someone you love? Absolutely. Think about it... how many couples have you seen who have been married for years, end up getting a divorce because he or she has cheated on them? I don't know about you, but I've seen plenty. Just because someone cheats, doesn't mean you don't love them, but like you said, something is lacking in the relationship, so you're basically showing yourself to the word freely to get what you're missing. In my mind, if I were to cheat on anyone, I'd feel miserable. Not to be a downer, but I just couldn't deal with my thoughts. I think that you should talk to whomever you're in this relationship with, discuss what has or still is bothering you deep down, and bring it out into the open to discuss and achieve. It's better to let out, then keep everything bottled up, because one day, you will crack... and it won't be pretty. I hope you take bits and pieces of my advice, and I hope to hear from you soon in the near future to see how things have gone.
2007-02-18 23:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by miles_of_memories 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right if something is lacking then a woman will cheat, but it also means that you are no longer trustworthy and this will go around to others. Does a woman really want to be known as a cheater? Yes you can be attracted to two different people, but then you have to weigh the pros and cons of both and make a decision. Go with your gut instincts and be happy. Take care Heather
2007-02-18 23:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! So there is no such thing as a men that cheats because there is something missing in his relationship?
Usually you only get these types of double standards from men.
But to answer your question, it is possible to cheat on someone you love, but the odds go way down if it is true love.
2007-02-18 23:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can cheat to just cheat as well as guys do. You can be attracted to 2 people but if it causes problems then the guy you are with is obviously not the one. Don't hurt anyone. Let one of them go.
2007-02-18 23:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the person and you feel the need to cheat then you will love them enough to let them go and be with someone who willing to make a monogamous commitment to them. Loving someone doesn't always mean holding tight. It can also mean being unselfish and letting them go because you know that you can't give them what they deserve.
2007-02-18 23:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by ACCOUNT CLOSED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there something lacking in your current relationship then you need to address it to your partner that's the only way to resolve whatever is lacking. So your attracted to two guys well which one makes you happy?
2007-02-18 23:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, you nailed it. It comes down to what is lacking in the relationship. What do you need more sex, adventure, someone that is more affectionate all contribute to people cheating.
2007-02-18 23:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Rambo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...I wouldn't stereotype mens intentions when they mess around. Unless they tell you directly why they did it!!!
Cheating is pathetic. I say if you like someone else tell your bf/gf and let them either be in on it with you or recommend a split.
2007-02-18 23:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by JM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mo to is if you cheat then there is no love so stop wasting time and find some who will satisfy you physically and emotionally, what you feel for the person is not love but pity. so save yourself the heartache and and leave him and spare him the pain.
2007-02-18 23:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by heartbreaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋