One night I went over to my bf's place and his friend was over who happens to be a girl, he always talks about how she gets around...we watched a movie...I left...and she stayed. We are about to move in together and I'm worried. They are 'supposedly' just friends BUT...would you be jealous??? PLEASE HELP!!!!!
2007-02-18 14:49:11 · 21 answers · asked by Baxter's Mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
y jealous if u have another man in ur house oso=)
2007-02-18 14:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by enjoyincubus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are just friends then they are just friends. He's not necessarily doing anything wrong. If that's the only reason that u have to suspect something then u should cool off. Just because she sleeps over doesn't that anything happened. Maybe they just hung out like friends do. U shouldn't be jealous as long as there isn't flirtation or u don't think he's leading her on.
2007-02-18 14:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where does she get "around" to? Sounds like she's getting around your boyfriend too much. Hell yes I'd be jealous, how could he put you into a situation where you'd feel uncomfortable and insecure? I can't blame you for feeling the way you do.
2007-02-18 14:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I proably would be a little mad but your moving in together so you have to trust him(right) maby just ask his your bf maby he just likes and there good friends and nothing happend
Dont worry
2007-02-18 14:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him, yes but life is not like that i don't care what the experts say they lie too!!! Would you think your bf would like it if it was the other way around, talk to him.
2007-02-18 16:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by knowitall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be concerned, but you have to trust your boyfriend, if you don't trust him, you shouldn't really be moving in with him cause it won't last. I have a girlfriend who is very innapropriate (loves to flirt, touch and routinely tells us about her sexual escapades) and often hits on my boyfriend. I don't like that she does it, but i know he would never cheat on me, and i also know he's refused her affections many times. You have to have some faith in your boyfriend. Let him know how you feel about it, but also respect his answer and his choice to put up a friend if he wants to. If he feels your concern is valid, he won't let it happen again.
2007-02-18 14:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly would be. even if your not a jealous person it's natural to be jealous over something like that. talk to your bf about it!
2007-02-18 14:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would be jealous and mad. You have to trust him though unless you catch them him the act. Tell him you are uncomfortable with her sleeping at his place.
2007-02-18 14:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd walk away from that situation and find a bf I could trust.
2007-02-18 14:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he given you any other reason to be jealous? has he lied about anything else?
my ex fiance` had a best friend that was a girl. never once did i worry about her. but he never gave me reason to and neither did she.
2007-02-18 14:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋