i am trying to move on from my ex. i am single with the baby and he has a new woman he is living with. i still love him, but he seems to be into his new life. i was just shocked at how fast he moved on and in with someone else. it was very hurtful. i planned my whole life around him, moved to his area where i knew no one, far from my home and its like he never got disrupted. now i am totally alone, away from home, but have to start all over in my job and new friends if i move back. but to stay is hard as when i see him i still feel attracted to him. i do want to move on but i can't stop my feelings. how can i let go???? i try to meet other men, but i can't feel the same way for them.
2007-02-18 14:46:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The hurt is too fresh not to miss him. Since he moved in with a new gf very fast, I wouldn't be surprised if he was seeing her while he was living with you. Just make sure that you get child support for your baby.
2007-02-18 14:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal, but you do have something in your life, your baby!! To get over him, don't think about all the good things, concentrate on the bad, and it will help ease the getting over process. When you get an urge to call him, call someone else... Also talk about your feelings to your friends, family, counseling, after awhile you will get sick of hearing yourself talk about it and anger for him leaving you sets in and thus the moving on happens. Remember, you are the only one that can make you happy, others can only enhance that happiness, if he isn't doing it, then choose only people in your life that will.
2007-02-18 22:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he could leave you in the lurch like that without a backward glance he is not worth the love you have for him. Just treat the situation like as if he has just died, grieve for him and then move on. You will probably be better off in the long run.
2007-02-18 22:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bear in mind that your ex left you for another woman and he's a "flirt". Should this true negative remarks, still make you think of him then there must be something wrong up in your mind. Very abnormal of a woman that can tolerate this nonsense of flirting.
2007-02-21 09:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it helps i am in the EXACT same boat and it hurts like hell and doesn't seem to be getting any better but I know that it has to eventually. I am trying to go out more. last night my child stayed with her grandparents and I drove 2 hrs away just to go out with a friend just to get out for a little. it sucks..but your not alone
2007-02-18 22:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by xoheidixo10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should at least help you with the baby.This will probably hurt you but it sounds like he didnt really love you too much.You should make him pay child support.If you still love him talk to him my ex got a new boyfriend and I am friends with him.Although she just told me today she was a lezbian.Well if you need anymore help email me at d6g007@yahoo.com.
good luck
2007-02-18 22:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by d6g007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must forget the past n start from fresh,try to get a new friend 4 replacement,of course u must take times n be patient to develop ur new love.ok?
2007-02-18 22:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He betrayed you, that hurts, there is only one way to let go of him, by praying and forgiving him, just like Jesus forgives us......Jesus loves you
2007-02-18 22:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO SAY IF HE MOVED ON THAT QUICK HE WAS PROBABLY CHEATING..........FIND YOURSELF AGAIN THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANTED IN A MAN WHEN YOU WERE SINGLE......FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU AND YOUR CHILD....
2007-02-18 22:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋