2007-02-18 14:33:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sad, but true, because men are visual creatures, she needs to lose weight to be physically attractive to them. If she is over 100lbs over weight, she needs to lose at least 50lbs before they will notice, if over 50lbs, then needs to lose 25lbs at least.
I know, not fair, but like I said, as men are visual creatures they only covet what is front of their eyes, not their brain and feelings.
If you gain the weight after being married due to having children, they sometimes are stuck in seeing you in the same mode that they saw you in prior to being married and really and truly don't see the extra pounds because the "hot", younger, more altrusitic version of you is stuck in their minds.
2007-02-19 19:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that is considered quite a bit overweight but even though she is very meticulous about her appearance and she has no trouble getting a date or a little action. she probably has more dates in 1 month than i've had all my life.
2007-02-18 22:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by kattz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do anything about it be sure it is to make yourself happy. Do not do it for a man. If someone truely cares for you it shouldn't matter!!! You may want to do it for health reasons but do not let anyone make you feel bad about yourself. At least your not a bone starving yourself to have a man!! Make yourself happy first or you will never be happy in a relationship anyway.
Good Luck!!
2007-02-18 23:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by li'lbit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't have to do anything! if they like your attitude then they should accept how you look. if not forget them!
2007-02-18 23:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by joan. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, tough one. Maybe you should drop a few.
2007-02-18 22:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel M 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋