Do some men make "sounds" when they are making love?

Question

I wonder if I am satisfying my husband, because he never does anything that shows it during our lovemaking. I want him to moan and groan with pleasure like I do. Do other men?

Answer 1

soem men, just like women, dont make noises. its more of a biting of the lip thing. still there...just not vocal.

Answer 2

Well Sweety, I am a woman and I can tell you that my husband does not moan and groan when were having sex I sometimes worry also but that does not mean he doesn't enjoy it I have never been with a man who moans and groans during sex. I don't know why but when it is oral sex I get a couple of moans and groans out of him. But talk to your husband thats the best thing you can do if you feel you are doing your job in the bed then be confident and know that he enjoys it whether he shows it with noise or not.

Answer 3

Talk to him .
He is your husband!
He should be the one person in the entire world who you can discuss this with.
My husband usually only makes a noise when he ejaculates but when its oral he moans and groans!
If you think you are not satisfying him you will get nervous about it and it will show in your affection for him. He might start thinking he is doing something wrong and it could cause all sorts of unnecessary problems, like him not being able to achieve or maintain an erection. really its no big deal as long as everthing is out in the open between you two.

Answer 4

Some men do, but not all. Just like some women are more vocal than others. Be honest with your husband, ask if he is enjoying himself or if he feels like there is anything lacking. Some men are quite silent, or don't feel comfortable making exclamations or or grunts/moans while lovemaking.

Answer 5

I have been maried to my wife for 4 years and I don't make a sound, unless I am really into it. I enjoy every minute, but I would rather hear her moan. All men feel that it is their job to satisfy the woman, so we want to her the women make noises. If we are making noises, we can't hear you. You should do what my wife does, stop in the middle of the session, roll to your side of the bed and act sad. When he asks whats wrong, tell him you don't feel you are satisfying him. Tell him that when he lays there silent, you are confused. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

My ex did, but for a long time when we were together he didnt make any noise. . . .then he got pretty loud, but not as loud as me. Women usually make more noise, like moaning and so on. some men even though they are greatly satisfied, wont make a sound, even when they orgasm. Some people are just like that, I have known a few guys that tell me they are concentrating too hard on not coming, lol and sometimes even though they feel awesome they dont express it with noise

Answer 7

Let's see; men don't usually groan until the end. LOL Usually men would talk dirty to you if he is feeling it, or say liitle things like: Who is it, You giving my stuff away, Want me to go faster, turn around, This feels good as hell. LOL Now if he isn't doing anything or talking something is wrong.

Answer 8

I used to be quiet until I discovered that it takes effort to be quiet, and the effort is a distraction. I found out that if I don't try to supress and sounds I might want to make it actually feels better. I'd rather make noise than take my attention off the pleasure just to be quiet.

Answer 9

Yeah i love it when men moan..

i have only been with 2 guys who moan during sex

Answer 10

All men are different hunni. Some are quieter in bed than others, it could be comfort, could be just how they are in bed, could be you are not pleasuring the right spots. ASK HIM WHAT PLEASES HIM AND TURNS HIM OFF AND SETS HIM ON FIRE AND TELL HIM TO SHOW YOU OR TEACH YOU. Don't feel bad about this. this is common

Answer 11

That doesnt mean he doesnt enjoy it. Im a man and i dont usually moan and groan. He has a mind and im sure he's using it.