can u give me some advice ?( ladies only)?

Question

i had all symptoms of pregnancy and my period was late for 8 days so i was so happy and i thought that i am pregnant however the pregnancy tests were negative but today i got my period and cramps and heavy bleeding i am so disappointed of myself , i feel like i can never be a mom and i am so upset after all these times trying , i am so sad
please give me some advice
i 've been ttc for a few years
thank you

Answer 1

sweetie give your body a little time before you try to get pregnant, make sure your uterus is strong, there are things they can do to help you. Don't ever be disappointed in yourself. I lost 6 babies and have two healthy ones. perhaps a chiropractor can help. They helped my sister. her uterus was tipped, one trip to chiropractor and she was pregnant that month. God bless and put angels on your pillows. Good luck honey

Answer 2

Hello there. sorry to hear about your frustration. trying to conceive is a long journey. all of the dingdongs on here should be helping to comfort you, not telling you that you should wait. you do whatever you feel is in your heart. Also, even though you normally get your period the same time each month, your body is still growing and changing. With me, my periods were always regular until I turned 21. Then I turned annovulatory where I didnt get a period at all at some times. What might be best is to see if your doctor will get you a pap smear and maybe to start using Ovulation Predictor Kits (you start testing 5 days after the last day of your period) that way you have a good indicator of when you are ovulating. the time frame of the day you ovulate until your next period is called a Leuteal phase. Sometimes its longer or shorter month to month. try this website, it has alotttttttt of info! www.tcoyf.com

Answer 3

well first off...im sorry about your disappointment. Usually after a year of ttc you should see a doctor to rule out fertility problems in both you and your partner. There may be something that they can help you with by just giving you a fertility pill. Another thing, is you might be stressing out about it too much..try not to concentrate on it so much (although i know its hard) and see if that helps. I was ttc for about a year and i finally "gave up" not really, but then i finally conceived. I wish you the BEST of luck!

Answer 4

Go to a doctor and have a physical to make sure that you are healthy enough for a baby, this will include blood work for hormone levels. Has your husband had his sperm checked out to make sure he's healthy as well? Seems the people I've talked with that tried so hard to get pregnant, finally did when they gave up on the idea. Relax, you will have a baby if it's meant to be.

Answer 5

I TTC for over 2.5 yrs the first time. It ended with surgery.

I accidently got pregnant RIGHT after I married my husband. Surprising!! Then now we have been trying for 1 yr, but I dont ovulate. I know how you feel, but I do have a 1 yr old little boy. Its hard.

Ash

Answer 6

My hubby and I tried for 3.5yrs, before our oldest daughter was born. I saw 5 seperate doctors. Most of which told me your fat, your infertile, go home and be happy. Finally after nearly 3yrs.of searching for a doctor, that DIDN'T think I was nuts, I finally found an awesome Ob/Gyn that specialized in infertility. After 6 months, with the highest dose of Clomid, we found out we were preg. We found out it was twins, but I m/c one one week before we found out we were expecting. Three yrs. later, almost to the day we found out we were expecting our youngest daughter,....NATURALLY, no fertility drugs! So just remember this, miracles do happen,especially when you least expect them. I've been there, I know. It's really hard, everytime it doesn't happen. I know this is cliche', but keep trying and keep believing!God Bless you !

Answer 7

it took me a long time to get pregnant with my son i was 29 been trying for almost 10 years.check with your ob maybe it is only bad timing or maybe you need a little help.don't give up do what you can .also has your man been checked ? maybe it is him that is the problem. good luck and i will keep my fingers crossed and keep "practicing " that is after all the fun part :) hope to hear good news soon.

Answer 8

Don't stress out. That doesn't help. It will hopefully come.

It was hard after I had a miscarriage, especially when people would tell me not to wait too long before "giving Michael a little bother or sister." It hurts when you can't conceive.

However, I'm assuming that you are married and financially able to support a baby. If you aren't, please wait.

Answer 9

Please dont be upset hun... it will happen for you when it is your time. I am in the same boat and when my period is late for whatever reason I have been trying to not get my hopes up.

Do you notice that it is those who want and could care for a baby who have to wait for them and those who can't handle them at the time who get them?
Wait your turn and you will understand why good things come to those who wait.

Baby dust to u

Sincerely,
Best of wishes ;)

Answer 10

Maybe you could check with your doctor and get some advice. I know that there could be some easy fixable problems. Or, your doctor could even give you some type of drug to help you.