i'm a virgin, and I was wondering what kind of pain you feel when having sex?
2007-02-18 13:37:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You will probably feel an uncomfortable feeling for the first few minutes or so. Many women dont feel anything, but I did and most women do. You may also experience a little bleeding or spotting after doing it for the first time, but dont be alarmed. Normally this is caused by the hymen being torn while having intercourse. Just make sure your partner is gentle with you at first and if you tell him you are a little nervous he will probably be gentle anyway. Being that you are a virgin, please be sure that this is what you want to do and make sure that it is the person you want to lose your virginity with. Good luck to you and I know this is easier said than dont but just try to be relaxed and comfortable and do not let him enter you until you are ready. After you get through the first experience, you will do fine. Losing your virginity is something special and should be with someone you really love. Have fun. Be safe.
2007-02-18 13:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by latasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only feel pain if a) the guy is LONG and or WIDE and it stretches too much b) goes out and them slams back into something solid c) tries doing some funny sideways thing and knocks around my organs or d) I have to go pee. I didn't have pain my first time nor in ordinary circumstances since. Generally the pain I do get feels like being poked with the end of a pool cue.
2007-02-18 21:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are being careful.. There is a lot more to worry about when you have sex now days it is just not what kind of pain you will have for the first time but what you can contract. You will have a little vaginal pain and first.. Do not let people fool you it can hurt like hell the first time. I hope it is with someone you have known for a long time and someone you love.
2007-02-18 21:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by sharon k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't feel pain when having sex. If you feel pain you would need to be checked by the doctor. Yes you feel some pain the first time but after that pain means something is wrong.
2007-02-18 21:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every woman body is different some women say that it don't hurt alot and some women say that it hurts alot.. But I think that if you are with a person that you really want to be with I might seem a little uncomfortable at first but after about 5-10 minutes I wont hurt at all.
2007-02-18 21:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the first time and only for about a minute. It's really not pain, more of a heavy pressure, then it's rather nice.
Don't be nervous or afraid. IT's not like childbirth.
2007-02-18 21:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a guy than you will feel no pain, unless she is a kinky girl. But if you are a girl, well... I just can't answer that one.
2007-02-18 21:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by JackDaniels024 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't know. I'm a guy, and it's NOT pain.
2007-02-18 21:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not really pain. it hurts but your so excited and nervous you barely feel it. its like a pinch kinda.
2007-02-18 21:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by rocker_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the is a tear like feeling. some say its sharp some say it burns at first
2007-02-18 21:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by hiyahun1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋