2007-02-18 13:21:20 · 16 answers · asked by FREE L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
jsut be honest with her so she can get on with her life...dont live a lie....you only live once...
2007-02-18 13:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by alicia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Soulmate??? Well I think this person has to be a person who likes to communicate and talk things out with you, unselfish, and you two have to have some things in common..if not you'll be willing to do it and enjoy it because the person you are with loves to do it. And there is no pressure in your relationships, she understands if you are broke. lol She is just everything you want, but not perfect...but she strives to perfection for you. She is all you think about, and you hate hurting her. Because you love her...and she won't change her feelings unless you hurt her or give her a reason. And even then so, she will still be the one who comes running back. Because she loves you...but don't take a woman like that for granted. If you have one..keep her.
Your married, you can;t just give up on a marriage unless she cheated and you can't trust her anymore...but don't tell her that
2007-02-18 21:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by SexyBlackFasho 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK. Here's the thing. We don't have soul mates on earth. We only have them in the after life. And as far as Love goes, you can always love someone but being in love is another thing. If your not in love with her anymore just tell her in the most comfortable setting. Don't spring it on her. If you have kids let them stay at a friends or relatives for the night so you can really talk. You don't want it to be ugly. Try to respect her and yourself in the process. It will be better for the both of you. All will work out and I hope you and your wife will continue to strive with or with out each other. God Bless.
2007-02-18 22:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her does it matter?
with 6 billion people in the world and half of those being the oposite sex, you have a 1 in 3 billion chance of meeting your soulmate, thats if the universe is not a practical joker and did not put your soul mate in the body of someone that is the same sex as you
perhaps your soulmate is a man on the other side of the planet
go figure
2007-02-18 21:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OUCH. There's no easy way to tell her. I don't think you should hide your feelings, you should be honest. But you also have to consider that she will be hurt by it, and possibly not want to remain in the marriage with you. If you're looking for a way out, I would suggest just talking to her about the real issues. But I just very seldom hear a man say that he feels his wife isn't his soul-mate...that's sort of something to consider before you marry. However, I wish you all the luck and hope things work out for you. And trust me that honesty is the most important thing you can have with someone you love (weather they're you're soul-mate or not).
2007-02-18 21:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by *Melissa* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few married couples are soulmates. Most people don't even know the meaning of the word (it's misused about as much as "love" is).
If you are asking how you tell your wife you no longer love her, you just be honest...sometimes couples grow and change and what was once a good match isn't any longer.
2007-02-18 21:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With caution! Be careful of the words you choose when explaining your differences. Maybe you should have a talk about the things you do and don't have in commen. More than likely if she's a smart one, she will pick up on the gap.
Marriage is hard. You have to work at it. Some days you can hate your spouse and other days you love them. You have to be able to balance. If you've just had a fight, cool off and revisit in the morning or when you able to think clearly.
2007-02-18 22:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by partknit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were man enough to marry her, then why can't you be man enough to make it work with her?
Guess you are not a 'real man' after all, or she thought you were. That's why before marrying someone, you should at least date them for about 2-3 years or more if you have to. These days, married couples just don't take their marriage 'vows' seriously enough to want to stay in the marriage to make things work, but instead they just want to take the easy way out by running away from their marriage problems and get divorced.
2007-02-18 21:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that many couples have married their soulmate but if you are saying that you no longer want to be with her then you get need to be honest with her. Tell her how you feel and why you feel this way. Be honest..she deserves to understand why you feel the way you do.
2007-02-18 21:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If you don't feel that you want to try to work on the relationship and you don't want to give it a chance of working out, then you need to just be upfront and tell her. You don't need to say anything about what she's not...don't make her defensive. Instead try to focus the conversation on yourself, what you need and what you feel you aren't getting.
2007-02-18 21:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Emmy F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her there is someone eles . That will take care of it . Try to be friends though :sometimes things just don't work out no matter how hard we try .
2007-02-18 22:05:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋