Me and My girlfriend are virgin and are planning to have sex, but just out of curiosity, how does sex feel without a condom and with a condom? but the thing is i want it to be really really intimate, and i dont want a condom to be an issue and affect our intimacy or do you suggest that we wait till marriage?
2007-02-18 13:20:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Wait until marriage. Sex really isn't a big deal. If you do decide to go ahead with it, use the condom. Just because you're both virgins and more than likely STD-free, she still can get pregnant.
2007-02-18 13:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex feels a lot better without a condom, but you won't be having much sex if you end up pregnant. How can you be sure your partner is a virgin? People lie about such stuff all the time. At the very least, be sure to use birth control. You can get free condoms and birth control pills at a clinic like Planned Parenthood.
2007-02-18 13:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by rosekm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting until marriage is best but the hardest. You will be very tempted along the way, but if you are a strong willed person you will be ok. On the other hand, if you do make love to your gf then a condom isnt that bad, for you or her. Just make sure you are both ready.
2007-02-18 13:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by elpasoblueyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this stage of your life it is definitely wiser to have sex using Condoms. They will help you both in two ways. Firstly, they are a very good method of birth control (so that you guys don't find your own youth taken away by becomming parents too soon). And secondly they are protection against disease that is passed on by un-protected sex.
IIt is a great idea to wait for marriage before trying un-protected sex.
Really pleased that you are thinking about this and that you asked for advice.
2007-02-18 13:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by yutu34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you wait til your married, but that isn't realistic these days. Use a condom ALL the time unless you want to risk a pregnancy. Just imagine having to go to both sets of parents to inform them they are going to be grandparents. That thought alone should cool things off for you both!
2007-02-18 13:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEn, Seriusly with out the condom feels sooo much better .BUT if u ont get her pregnant then use it...Its a dilema.
Now its up to u to decide if u wanna wait or not for marriage. But u missing out sex is da best!
aight
2007-02-18 13:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by rrrrrrr300 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can buy condoms that are so sensitive it dosent feel like there is anything there or you have one on.
i suggest a condom though, there is pregnancy, infections everything without one, maybe after a while if things develop between you two maybe suggest her going on the pill.
2007-02-18 13:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Natasha G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋