Recently I told my best friend about what a mean person I used to be and the things I've regretted doing and how much I've changed, but now she's been acting like I still am that person and I think she's avoiding me. What should I do?
2007-02-18 13:12:41 · 10 answers · asked by chocolates918 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to talk to her/him, and ask if what you told them has changed how they feel about you. ot maybe the case that they are not avoiding you, but you think that they are doing this because this was the reaction you thought you would get.
Talk to them, otherwise you will never know and may lose a friend.
good luck
2007-02-18 13:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is hard, but if she is like that, maybe she isn't a true friend. A true friend will be by you in the good times AND the bad times. It also really depends on what you did. If you raped some-one or shot them or something, that would be kind of creepy. You know, constantly wondering, "What if I anger her? Will she shoot me? Will she rape me?" No offense, though.
2007-02-18 21:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her house and tell her you guys need to talk. Then explain to her that oyu have changed. And hope she understood!Things won't be like they used to be 4 a while....but they will slowly get bask on track.
Best of wishes!
2007-02-18 21:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by That_one_person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her whats going on... either it'll be something and your off the hook... or she'll maybe bring up how she's concerned about you.... just reasure her that you've learned from your past and that your a better person now...
best of luck
2007-02-18 21:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kritsi Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her. Cuz she doesn't seem to be treating you well enough. Let her cool down for a bit.
2007-02-18 21:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should probably ask her wut's up cuz u no it might not b bcuz of u it mite b cause of sumthin else like somethings going on in her family or something- def. talk to her tho
2007-02-18 21:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by basketball chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with other friends for a little while...i think she needs a break after hearing all those things about u!! dont worry..:)
2007-02-18 21:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you probably need to sit down with her and reassure her that you are no longer those things, and you have learnt from your mistakes.
2007-02-18 21:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just wait and maybe if she stops talking to you prove to her you are different. Hope it works.
2007-02-18 21:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Armani Lucreita Pezzulo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not worth hanging out with if she can't accept you now and just forget what happened before
2007-02-18 21:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by iceprincess097 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋