2007-02-18 12:20:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
yeah... we can hide that stuff... or we can really let you know...
some girls lie and say they do when they don't.... which has various reasons behind that... like if they don't really want to have sex, habit or just because you tried so hard and they felt bad.
ok, so what you want to do is set up communication when you are in a sexually active relationship when it comes to what turns you on in the bedroom. telling her what you like and asking her what she likes or to show you how to do what she likes is a good place to start.
2007-02-18 12:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First... some girls don't ever actually "orgasm". They are able to be pleasured, but don't reach the climax as easily or obviously as men do.
Anyhoo...with that said... the only way to know for certain that a girl has had an orgasm is to know you've given her one. A girl can't just go into a bathroom whack it for 5 minutes and come. She needs patience, she needs to be wooed. Take it slow, tease her... A LOT! Read her body, listen to her (Not necessarily words...). Whisper little nothings in her ear... You need to pleasure a girls mind as much as you need to pleasure her body. If she knows you find her attractive, she'll respond to you.
For the more physical ways to know a girl is turned on is wetness... in obvious areas. The wetter she is, the more she is turned on... Another thing oyu may want to look at is if her nipples are hard... That is another sign that she is turned on. And if you're fingering her, you will feel the muscles inside of her contracting, (squeezing you fingers). That is pretty much the climax of a girls orgasm... Always try to draw it out. A girl can orgasm longer than a boy. Just be a little careful. It gets a little painful. =P
The best way to learn a girls body is experiece... Time will give you the experience you need. Just don't take that as an excuse to become rather promiscuous in your sexual activities hm??
Be careful in how you ask questions... you will probably come off as being insecure and all that. So, i hope this is a good start. Never hurts to ask. =P
2007-02-18 20:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by amby_rya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although it is true that women can fake it. There are some signs. First the thrusts will become more in sync. 2nd you should feel a tightening around your penis. Or as my husband says he can feel my walls. Also, you may feel additional warmth. As you feel these things happening her hold on you will become stronger and if she is voiceful, you will hear it in her voice at the same time. Hope that helps.
2007-02-18 20:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by Smith Agency of Farmers Ins. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will tell you. Sometimes she might have and sometimes she might have not really had one but either way she said it and it will make you feel good - and she will love that enough.
2007-02-18 20:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by Blaze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her.
If you are too nervous to do that, some women, but not all will have vaginal and anal contractions.
2007-02-18 21:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by sarah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never know unless she tells you.
2007-02-18 20:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get old enough, you will know
2007-02-18 20:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/q_orgasm.htm
2007-02-18 20:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will never no tll it happens
2007-02-18 20:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by canada chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask...?
2007-02-18 20:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋