i've been crying a lot at school recently?

Question

i'm a teen and i've been really stressed, cause of my job, and exams are coming up and my grandma just died a little over a week ago. i feel really stupid, my friends are mostly guys and i think that they are thinking, you know, that its time of the month, (and to all guys- all girls hate that guys always assume that.) do teen guys think that i am just overreacting? i am trying to cry when nobody, cause I don’t want to be known as the girl who is going to cry at any moment, but but sometimes i'm cry in class cause I cant help it. i feel kind of stupid, cause i;m not feeling that sad inside all the time but i still cry. what do you guys think of when girls cry. and do any other girls have the same problem, how do you distract yourself?

Answer 1

i used to be like that this year. i found out i was depressed when i hit a really bad low and asked my mom to take me to counseling. i think you should go, it might be really hard to ask but it's really worth it. things are getting better. i am on prozac now but if you don't want ot be on medication you can just talk to a therapist. you should definately talk to someone.

it might sound lame, but i actually distract myself by reading.
or taking a bubble bath. but a good book is running with scissors.
well, good luck.

Answer 2

hey it's okay to cry. it lets all your stress out. when i was 11 ( i still am) my sister that i had been waiting for, passed away after one day 9 she was born at 12:30 in the morning and died a day after) the reason that my answer makes sense is that i stayed home 3 days to just cry and get over grief. it might take u a while becuz u r stressing with work and exams, to get your mind off just study hard, work hard, and cry whenever u need to.

Answer 3

Well, I find it perfectly ok to cry. I just think to myself that its better to let it out then to keep it in. I always feel better After I cry. I moved from a different country to the USA and always when I go back in the summer and have 2 come back to here I always cry. I cry because Im affraid that I wont see my grandmaand grandpa again, because we stay at there house. I usually just cry. I feel really embarased But I just let it out. My grandma the hugs me and she to crys. You see its ok to cry just remember to carry a tissue with you. Thats what I do when I know im gonna cry. I also sometimes cry when a friend or relative leaves the USA but again... I cry and I find it ok and I guess I have no choice but to cry.

Good luck and I hope I helped :) feel better

Also my friend sometimes crys in school because 3 of her dogs passed away. It feels kind of aquard but I knew she felt better without a lot of attension. She would usually cry during lunch and then go to the bathroom to continue to cry. Its kind of hard to confort someone who is crying there heart of because someone died becaus eyou dont really know what to say to them.