Ok I know this is an akward question but my gf said that if I dont have sex with her she will leave me!?

Question

Im only 15, My mom would kill me, I told her I want to wait until I get married. She threatened to leave me. What do I do?

Where do i get condoms? How do you perform oral down there. someone said lick the abc's is this true

help i love her and will do anything for her! but i dont wanna go to hell!

Answer 1

Dayum....usually it's the other way around. Either way the answer is the same. DO NOT let others pressure you into doing something that you feel is wrong. Let your morals and faith guide you. Think about it, she's manipulating you by saying she will leave you. SHE KNOWS you don't want to leave her and she's taking advantage of that. Making you do something you shouldn't have.

Oh well, it's your life anyhow.

Answer 2

First of all, if she really loves you she will wait. Don't let her pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. You are too young to worry about sex. There are so many problems that come along with it. What if you aren't her first and she gives you an std? How will you explain that to your parents? Another thing, condoms aren't 100% baby proof. I don't think they are even 60%. My friend has two babies she conceived while using condoms. Do you really want to chance having a baby that you have to help take care of and pay for for the rest of your life. However, if you are going to go through with it the best course of action is birth control. This isn't going to be a one time event and you might as well be prepared for the future. Check online for a good birth control center. They should have a place near you. As far as going to hell, ask your self what you think will happen. If nothing else, talk to your preacher and ask him what he thinks

Answer 3

lick the abc's? I don't even know what that means. I'll admit that. you shouldn't do her if you don't want to, I think 15 is too young. why are you even thinking about marriage? if you do need condoms, most gas stations have them or drug stores, near the pharmacy. don't buy the non lubricated ones, the only thing those are good for is blowing them up and gluing them to your best friend's car when they turn 21 or get married.

Answer 4

Hi Friend---it sounds to me like you need to move on and find a new girl----the fact you are not yet ready to have sex means it would be best to wait till you are married if you can that would be best----good luck in whatever you decide.

Answer 5

Guess what? she does not love you nothing indeed.She want to manipulate you.If she want to leave you,there are more babies girls for you.she is not the only one in planet earth.God will give you a beautiful baby girl,who will respect you and will love you indeed.Also God already put a lady in your way.(not that lady).Your actual gf only want to have sex,but does not love you.Think good,smart,remember it is not the end of the world.

Answer 6

Dont do it. Get rid of her. If she is pressuring you, then you need to tell her to back off and get a life. SHe is a scank, you are a good boy.

No, dont even think about asking for advise on how to go down on a girl, your far to young.

Get rid of her now!!!

Answer 7

You got lots of time For sex!! When you become a man!! If you do ------- use a condom.You can get them from your heath teacher. By the way the health teacher as all the answers.

Answer 8

I think you need to wait till you are 18 or can support a child.
Waiting till your married is foolish in my opinion.
In either case, dump her before she gets you in a weak moment.

Answer 9

if she really loved you she wouldn't make you do this! your girl friend threatening to break up with you is not worth losing you virginity. if she don't under stand that you want to wait maybe shes not the one for you.

Answer 10

If you're not ready, that's OK. If the tables were turned, and she didn't want to give up her virginity to you... you would be expecteed to respect that. If she can't respect that, then she doens't really love you.