I was in a physically abusive relationship for a couple of years, 3 years ago. When I think about it, I never feel anything, not sad, anxious, concerned or anything at all. I know that this was a horrible period in my life and that while living in that day to day life I was very depressed and emotionally unhealthy. I rarely talk about it to anyone and I have never even mentioned it to my fiance. Why does this not effect or bother me at all?
2007-02-18 11:39:25 · 4 answers · asked by h_nanny 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You have probably suppressed it and pushed it down into your base chakra.
It may not now bother you now however it will have to be dealt with one day.
Otherwise it will effect your health later on in Life
Meditation is a good way to deal with it.
Read the book Heal Your Body (Paperback) by Louise Hay or You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-02-18 12:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me you have repressed everything. You may be effected more than you know. Only transcendental people are not effected or people who are so pained by their past they have numbed themselves to not feel the pain. Best to leave our past in the past if possible and be a caring compassionate individual. But if you think you are numb to compassion then best to look into your past and heal or you will be no more than an animal. Humans are supposed to have love and compassion. go to harekrishnatemple.c Read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada Tells the meaning of human life and how to be a true human being and be happy.
2007-02-18 19:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you've matured and decided not to dwell on a bad time of your life and have moved on. Anyone who has experienced sadness in their life needs to do the same. Learn from the badness, and LIVE FOR TODAY. You can't change the past so why live in it?
You are to be admired for being able to live your life today.
2007-02-18 19:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your one of the people who can take their past and make themselves stronger-not letting the pain of the past crush you.very strong congrads.
2007-02-18 19:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋