how old were you when you lost ur virginiry? im just wondering because alot of people think its werid that im a virgin and im 14.
2007-02-18 11:25:05 · 43 answers · asked by :D haha 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
18..almost 19. I was in college. Be proud that you are a virgin! I would think it is weird to be 14 and NOT be a virgin. At 14, you have no idea what you want and you shouldn't be having sex. Enjoy being a teen and wait until you find the right guy. Coming from a young married woman..yes guys will pressure you. They are going to tell you what you want to hear, say things that make you feel good and make you happy. But..wait until you have found the right guy. Once you lose your virginity, you can't get it back. The right guy won't pressure you and will wait until you're ready. Most "good" guys don't want a girl that has been around..they want a girl who cares enough about herself to save herself for a special someone.
As a teen and in your early 20's, many people just do it and don't think about it. But then you grow up and when you find someone that you want to marry, you might be turned off to find out how many people they have been with. As the saying goes, you can't make a hoe a housewife.
It is possible to go out, date and have fun without having sex. Think about yourself and what you want in a career. Respect yourself and your body and others will respect you.
2007-02-18 11:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by army_sister785 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It is no where near weird to be a virgin at 14. I know people that are in their 20's that are still virgins. It's okay to be the one not doing it. I won't preach and say to wait until you are married and all that jazz, but I would suggest waiting until you are really ready because you don't want to regret it later. I was 15 and I am still angry with myself for giving that to him when he didn't deserve it. It's one of the few things that you have that once it's gone you can't take it back. Plus STD's and pregnancy are all over the high schools now a days.
2007-02-18 11:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not weird for you to be a virgin at 14 it' completely normal and do what you feel in your heart don't let peer pressure guide you in any way if you want to be a virgin until you get marry then do that.After you have sex you have a lot of responsibilities ahead of you make the right choice take good care!!!!
2007-02-18 11:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by sweetascandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15
2007-02-18 12:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was 17, and you are not weird for being 14 and a virgin. Be proud of that fact. You can only lose it once so be careful who you share that with. Don't let other people's ideas of normal or weird get to you. It is right for you when you are okay with it and when you are with the right person. Also, remember that everyone has different values. Some people don't think sex is such a big deal. Others think it is something to reserve only for marriage. At your age, you are old enough to decide what you believe. If you aren't ready to lose your virginity, so be it.
2007-02-18 11:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by SadieB 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I was 14 when i lost mine. I now wish that i had waited. Dont get me wrong i really did love the guy and we were together for a long time. Even to this day we are still the best of mates! But it would have been nice to be older and waited until i was married. DOnt do "it" just cause everyone else says they are because they most likely are not doing anything!! You do it whenever you feel comfortable and ready... Good Luck
2007-02-18 11:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was 15...but it is not weird to still be a virgin. But you will know when you are truly ready there will be no doubts if it is with the right person. Just don't give in to peer pressure...i ALMOST did then i found out the guy had STD's and had raped other girls so be careful!
2007-02-18 15:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by amanda hugandkiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't think your weird, they are just projecting their insecurities on to you. They are feeling left out because they probably still virgins also, or if they had done it it probably wasn't the life altering experience that they thought it was going to be. Don't worry about the "when" of losing your virginity, just concentrate on finding the right "who". The actual act of losing your virginity pales in comparison of finding your first true love. BTW I was 16, and I lost it to a guy that had no respect for me, and I DID NOT have any fun, but when I fell in love for the first time, I finally knew what they meant by fireworks. Take your time with that stepping stone, most 14 year olds are just like you.
2007-02-18 11:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy B 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I was 16! In fact, most of the people in my school were 15-16 before they even THOUGHT about loosing their virginity!
Trust a person who has been there, it is better to wait until you are in a committed relationship. One of the most uncomfortable sex things is finding the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and knowing that you had ___ partners before him. They all just seem like a waste of time.
2007-02-18 12:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile and be proud that you are a virgin. When they say it is weird that you are one.. Tell them.. oh I was thinking that it was weird that you lost yours at such a young age. Stay that way till you graduate.. it is something you should be proud of!!!!!!!! I know if I knew more about sex and STD's and pregnancy at 14 I sure would have waited longer. It was not all that great and I really felt bad afterward. Then I was a basket case wondering if I got pregnant.. just wait and I am damn proud of you!
2007-02-18 12:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋