My boyfriend and I broke up after 2 years we just weren't ment for eachother. I'm trying to be really positive about it but I just dont know what to do anymore, it's starting to hit me and i am burning from the inside out. I need advice on how to occupy my time.
2007-02-18 10:59:17 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley Marie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's okay to be sad and bummed, after 2 years you are letting go of something and someone that was very important in your life. You need to have a good cry, call your best friend and get out of your house. Go see a movie, go to a club or hang out with friends you may have not seen alot of during the past 2 years. Keep your positive attitude and do all the things you always wanted to do.
2007-02-18 11:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lynsey T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself. Eat right, exercise and get enough sleep. Stay busy and socialize when possible. If there is something that you have been wanting to do ( for example take a class, lose weight, cut your hair) do it. See this is a new beginning for yourself. Try not to get depressed.
Reach out to family members and friends that you may have lost touch with. Make plans to get together or to travel to see someone you have not seen in a long time.
Whatever you do, don't allow yourself to start "looking like something is wrong". Fix yourself up on the outside even when the inside does not feel so good.
2007-02-18 19:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my situation was the same. I broke up from my boyfriend in October after 2 and a half years. I was heart broken. It was the fact of being all alone that got to me. But what you have to do is surround yourself with your girlies and if you have a few nights of tears that is ok. if they are good friends like mine were they will be there dissing all men in the world until to an outsider she sounds like she's describing a pile of dog s**t. :) Have fun right now but dont go after another guy straight away, give yourself time to adjust to life on your own and get to know yourself again. Good luck hunny
2007-02-18 19:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by alibobs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever u do, dont get back with him. I know u want 2 and u r probly missing him to death, but once it's over, it's over there is no going back. U will probly cry alot when u r on ya own and thinking about him. That OK u need to get it out of your system. It will hurt like hell hun, break ups R so hard. U need to concentrate on freinds and family. When u feel ya self day dreaming about him u have to tell ya self to stop and start thinking about other things that make u happy. Go out with your friends enjoy yaself and eventualy u will get over him.
2007-02-18 19:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m going through the same thing,my bf of 6 years has walked out on me and our son for the 2nd time,i feel like i`m dying inside and trying my hardest to stay strong but i must admit it is hard,just keep yourself busy,be around your family and friends.
Whatever you do don`t turn to drink as it only helps short term and then makes you ill and very depressed the next day as i am just now.Goodluck,xx
2007-02-18 21:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I felt that way when I lost my first love. Don't bury your feelings..that's unhealthy. If you have to call ur best friend at 2am sobbing your eyes out..do it. When you feel lonely..go out with some friends. Try doing something You've always wanted to do but never did. (yoga or dance classes, challenge yourself by taking a hard academic class...) Point is to prove life WILL go on and you'll be just fine without whats-his-face :)
2007-02-18 19:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a total wreck for about 6mths after my old gf dumped me 6 years ago but you have to accept things eventually and move on try indulging in a past or fav hobbie or sport or if you can handle it a new love.
Hope this helps
2007-02-18 19:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with friends talk to people heck throw a party do what makes u happy whether its shopping watching Brad Pitt on tv whatever etc. Just don't let that occupy to much of energy its wasted energy.
2007-02-18 19:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do right now is to be with some close friends. Go to the mall the moviesout to eat do as much as possible to get it out your head. Ckean up your room out your car, take down any pictures of you guys. just being around other people would help alot
2007-02-18 19:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need a new guy 4 real i went throw a brake up 2 dont worry i feel ya but i moved on hey atleast u can holla at some 1 more hot and sexy
2007-02-18 19:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by young mixed mami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋