Are you missing meals? Suffering from lack of sleep? Missing work? Losing your girlfriend/boyfriend? Losing friends that aren't members of your guild?
If the answer to any of these questions is yes then you might have a problem. If your RL (real life) is well-balanced then I wouldn't worry too much. I would cut back on the hours if I were you (that's a full day lost a week to WoW) but that's up to you.
If your RL is suffering then I would just bite the bullet and delete your account. (Or make someone change the password so they have to let you on). You can use the parental controls in the advanced options to limit the hours that you play (I believe)
Hope this helps
2007-02-18 11:03:10
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answered by LX V 6
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You know everyone keeps talking about ppl being addicted and all these news stories going around and everyone wants to push blame on Blizzard and the game for these ppl. It's like excessively obese people that try to sue McDonalds because they are excessively obese because they ate there 3 times a day 7 days a week. McDonalds didn't force them into their establishment, or force them to order the greasy food or forcefeed it down their throats.
So all these people wanting to push blame on everyone but who is truly at fault. It's the ones who are playing WoW. A mother cries in some interview cuz her 16 yr old kid dropped out of school and does nothing but play WoW all day and she cries this sob story, but the kid has no job, obviously she or someone else is paying the monthly fee. Cancel the damn subscription, it's that easy.
As for your 'addiction', many other people have had some very good questions you need to ask yourself. Take a moment and really THINK, do you plan your days/evenings/whenever around WoW? If so, then my friend, take a break from the game. You do not need to QUIT like many ppl say, but taking a break or having the willpower to limit yourself may be in order.
Now what us WoW players realize, and what the people who DON'T play the game DON'T realize, is that 4-6 hours a day becomes almost necessary at higher levels, when instances and such take awhile to run. It's like watching a really good movie, you get into it and when it's over you realize that an hour and a half+ has gone by that seemed like mere minutes.
Personally, 4-6 hours is fair, it allows time to do many things, but not so much that your whole day is ruined. The 9-12 hr shifts on weekends is a bit much, and I say this being a player that has a wife (who also plays WoW) and 3 kids (one of them that has her own chars as well, tho she only gets to play it maybe once a week or so - and acts more mature than some of the ppl on there, and she's only 7, almost 8!). I also play on average 4-6 hours a day, usually after work.
On my days off, I have been getting into those 9-12 hr shifts as well, so I am in EXACTLY the same position you are. I suggest doing what I am doing. Make yourself cut back, if you feel WoW is becoming more important than RL. Keep it to 4-6 hrs. It is a fair amount of time to enjoy the game, and still leaves time for RL.
Best of luck!
2007-02-22 08:41:30
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answered by xadric 2
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I think if you're questioning it then you probably are. I went through WoW addiction, although it was subtle. I didnt lose friends, or a relationship, or my job, and I didnt miss meals. I would play on average 1 hour a day over the two years I played the game, which isn't a lot by other people's standards, but I still feel I had an addiction.
The reason I felt that way was because I would make future arrangements on things that happened in game. It got to the point where I was looking for a new job, but I only wanted one that would allow me to raid when my guild raided.
I think I was more addicted to the social aspect of it. I really liked my guild members and I really had a lot of fun in the game with them. I still talk to a few of them today even though I dont play anymore.
It becomes a full fledged addiction when you ignore friends, dont do anything in real life, dont hang out with your boyfriend/girlfriend and you start to lose your job etc. Thats a real addiction. However I found myself slightly addicted and wanted to end it before it got any worse. Right before Burning Crusade came out I decided it was time to stop.
Here's the stinker though. I cant really say that real life is much better than WoW, because a lot of the time it isn't. Thats why people play it. Its an escape, its a crapload of fun to play and you get to be larger than life. Sometimes enough is enough though and its back to the real world and making real goals. Thats why I quit really. I was making too many goals in the game and not enough goals in real life. Thats where the problem with the game is.
Hope this helps. The game will always be there if you want to go back. I say, stop playing for a couple of weeks, and you probalby wont even miss it anymore.
2007-02-18 15:41:15
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answered by subby33 3
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Lots of people play more than that even. I have a 70 myself and 39 and 29 twinks. I wish wow would make it easier to obtain some of the end game stuff. You really have to put in an impossible amount of time for most of it. For example BG, by my estimations, you have to do AV 3 times for 1k honor at 70, thats 1 hour of game play (if a short queue). So you need to play 50+ hours of BG just to get the belt, boots, and bracers!! That's just dumb. For me it's less fun now and more like work. I'll probably get tired of playing and move on to something more constructive, as you will too.
2007-02-19 14:09:54
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answered by joninjapan 2
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I think the problem with WoW is that there is no end. You put in all this time and effort into the game and you do get enjoyment out of it, but that is it. You do not get any other benefit from it. If you put that much time and energy into say school or a business, think about what you could accomplish. I also used to play WoW, but realized that life and family were much more important. I lost 8 months there. LOL.
2016-05-24 04:05:13
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, i think that guy before me was a jerk, second: I would only think you had an addiction if you couldn't keep off of it from 3 days to a week. I am a huge fan of Internet games, Wii, Xbox, and Gamecube and I know that you are actually interested in this subject as it has just been shown on the yahoo news.
2007-02-18 10:54:12
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answered by Duke O Hazrd 2
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this is how i see it, I play wow a lot. But when someone wants to do something in real life I do it. Sometimes yes I want to run an instance or get that extra level and what not but i would rather see my boyfriend or friends. When nothing is going on if i play wow for most of the day i dont care i didnt have anythign planned. I go to work, i clean my house and see my friends.
now example of wow addict, my boyfriend before he quit. Would avoid going to movies with me, ask me to come over after he was done raiding so i wouldnt disturb him ect.
Is the game effecting how you act when people ask to see you?
:):)
2007-02-18 11:20:28
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answered by attila 6
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Addiction is characterized by the repeated use of substances or behaviors despite clear evidence of morbidity secondary to such use.
Bottom line if it is causing you problems with your real life than cut back on your usage. Is there clear evidence of these problems in your everday life? The greeks always strived for balance. WOW is an awesome game but if it hinders the rest of your life you should cut back.
2007-02-22 07:57:18
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answered by Dude 2
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AMEN!!!!! (Yes you do) If you play that much every day then you do have an addiction!!!!! I heard on the news that a couple left their baby at home to play WoW at a Starbucks that had a Hot spot (Internet connection) for hours and when they came home, THE BABY WAS DEAD!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you want to become that type of parent?!?!?!?! OK, sorry; I didn't mean to sound rude, dramatic or whatever. I just had to tell the truth. :-/ Sorry.
2007-02-21 11:50:32
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answered by sims_are_cool 2
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My b/f (errr...now ex) chose this freaking game over being with me and his daughter. I tried to explain to him that he has a problem because he was addicted to this game. He lost his job and took his time to find another one because I was paying all the bills anyway. He ignored and neglected both me and his 1 year old daughter. I received little to no help from him and had to beg for his time and attention. The game had to go, I had enough. Didn't want it to come off as an ultimatum but I told him it was WOW or me. Guess what he chose? You got it!! Instead of working out our differences and being an attentive father, he chose to spend all his time and engery playing WOW. This game has ruined my life, because it ruined my family! I obviosly couldn't compete with WOW so he got rid of me. Now I am sad, depressed, lonely, bitter and angry! Thanks WOW!!!!
Btw, we were doing perfectly before this game entered our lives!! That's when the addiction started.
2007-02-20 06:50:41
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answered by melcar12345 4
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