what should i do?

Question

i asked my exgirlfriend to go bak out with me but she said she dosnet know if she wants to becouse she dont belive in anything i say she dont trust me becouse 10 months ago i lied to her but she decided to forgive me and keep our realtionship but yesterday she was like she cant take it no more she tried but sho can trust me even tho i havent done anything wrong. eversince the day she forgave me i never did anything wrong and i proved to her dat she is the onlyone for me. she says she still love me but she dosnt know if we are going back together what should i do? giver her time? forget about her? shoud i call her even tho i already beg ofr her to stay with me please help me

Answer 1

It sounds like it's over & you're just torturing yourself by trying to hang on to her. You do need to move on.

Answer 2

You have to give her space. Clear her head and find out whats really bothering her. It seems like there is something wrong that isnt being said, and maybe it's not even you. Maybe she is dealing with herself, and who she is and becoming. There are many possibilities. Ever heard of the saying, "if you let something go, and it comes back, its yours to keep"? Same concept. The worse thing you can do, is smother her, it will only push her away, for good. This may take a few days or longer. But be understanding and just let her know you are there for her, no pressure involved. Things always work out the way they are sopose to. And if it wasnt meant to be, then it wasnt meant to be. I hope this helps.