What happened????

Question

I met this guy freshmen yr, he was a sophmore
we were good friends during that yr and during the summer
we talked and hung out a lot
he said he really enjoyed my company and that this thing we did over the summer(it was like a conditioning camp type thing we did every mon-fri called camp hell) wouldnt have been as fun if i hadnt been there
once school started, he just stopped talking to and began completely ignoring me
hes gotten a little better and will say hi to me in the hallways, but when he sees me anyother time he wont even aknoledge that im there-sometimes ill be with one of r mutual friends and he'll talk to her but still will act like im not there or he doesnt know me
im just really confused why hes doing this. i asked him about it when he first started ignoring me and he said nothing was wrong

Answer 1

Guys are idiots just plain and simple.It was alright for him to be your friend when you both were at that camp together.Maybe it helped him get through it,as it helped you and maybe that's all it was to him.So now that he's back in the general public and around other females, he doesn't want to give people the impression that maybe you to look like more than friends, if people see you talking to each other all the time.Believe it or not that's the way guys think.So most likely that's probably what's going on with him.Unfortunately you took it for alittle more than what it was worth.So just say your occasional hellos and pretty much leave it at that.You really don't want to be involved with a guy who can't even give you the time of day,after spending time with you at a camp.Always tell yourself you deserve better.There are different types of men:ones who understand and are not afraid to show how they feel.the ones that are self centered and only think about themselves. Ones who cheat,and ones that let the woman do all the work in a relationship.So think about that and then decide what type of man you would rather be with.

Answer 2

Do you really want to talk to someone that is treating you like that? maybe just leave it be for a little and then see how he is towards you. Then you can ask him again whats wrong. Have a little confidence in your self and dont let it get you down. :)

Answer 3

Dear Hola,
I don't know you but I can tell you really like this guy, he doesn't want to let it go any further and he's politely telling you that without blatantly coming out and saying so, he doesn't want to be rude. Leave him alone summer was Summer and that's that.