i was working late and it got really hot in my office so i took off all of my clothes and tried to finish my work. i usually listen to the radio when i work so when my favorite song came on i just had to dance. my boss saww me and also took off her clothes and started to dance with me. it got a little crazy and we started to make out. i told her stop cause im not a lesbian and she kept going and pulled handcuffs out of the drawer on her desk. after she handcuffed me she left for a minuted and came back with some "toys". i told her to stop again.. but one we got started i liked it. is this still rape and if it is what do i do
2007-02-18 10:18:33 · 24 answers · asked by Mulan is a fucking hoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like a great way to spend your evening....don't cry rape Babe...cry for more....
2007-02-18 10:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
The fact that you said no,and she kept going could label it as rape.Or some kind of sexual misconduct on her part. But the fact that you liked it,I wouldn't yell one thing after admitting you went along with it.In your case since it was a woman and she is your boss, it would be your word against her's.If she attempts to do it again, you could file sexual harrassment charges against her.But you should think about the fact that you enjoyed it,and complaining about it now won't help you.So unless you walk away if she trys anything again,I would just let it go for now.If it was a man,that would definitely be rape if you said no.But in a case with a woman, I really don't know how the courts would judge that,maybe like I said some kind of sexual misconduct on her part.Watch where you take your clothes off in the future.
2007-02-18 10:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean sexually raped, or spanked? Were you tricked into consenting, in which case you consented? It's my understanding, that's often the way it's done, now days? Or were you forced? If tricked, you have very little recourse. But if forced, you can report him/her to the 3 B and the police or FBI. Perhaps even, to the boss' boss. Don't ask me why, but I once read a spanking story on the Internet, in which a lady was being a problem at work, and her boss spoke to her about it (she'd been reported to him more than once) and he ended up spanking her. That's why I asked. It's never a good thing- purely unbusiness like.
2007-02-18 10:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you were into it maybe you have some questions about your own sexuality. I also feel that if you feel that strongly about it maybe you should talk to her. Be nice about it and just tell her that you don't think that what happened was appropriate for the workplace and co-workers. It kinda made you feel uncomfortable. Also buy a desk fan and keep your clothes on. What if it had been someone else who could have really hurt you or worse? Lastly, like I said, sounds like yuo have some doubts about yourself. Go out and meet a couple of girls and have a nice experience and see if you still feel the same.
2007-02-18 10:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by imtika2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not making that up. Rape is very serious and not something to joke about. You had no business taking off your clothes in public. That's not normal. Call the police if you are telling the truth.
2007-02-18 10:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's still rape, but...what you took of all your clothes?! I'm so confused why were you naked. This sounds like you wanted SOMETHING to happen. You started dancing? You're a freak. Call me.
2007-02-18 10:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by Omer D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rape involves resistance by the victim, doesn't seem that there was much of that. Tell her to give you a big raise. Satisfying her sexual needs isn't in your job description so in my opinion you are going above and beyond the call of duty.
2007-02-18 10:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seems you got more pressing issues than alleging rape! Thought about switching to de-cafe? or not doing recreational drugs?
only things that could get you outta of your clothes at work as I see it.
Dream better dreams!
2007-02-18 10:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by Blitzpup 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is not a rape if you like it!
No rape should be enjoyful.
well I think you should be a lebian with her
then things won't get ugly and violent
2007-02-18 10:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm sure if you had been raped you would know. Apparently, you haven't because you think it's something to joke about. Get a life.
2007-02-18 10:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by BrutalBaby 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes it is still rape. you should not dance naked again and keep your door locked if you work late again. if you are not having feelings for her you should report it but if you have feelings for her and she can pleeze you hook up and have fun together.
2007-02-18 10:24:14 · answer #11 · answered by Bubblez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋