im a guy, and im 16 years old, and i wanna kno is this wrong, my best frienf is 15 and also a guy, and i really love him, i kno im not gay, but were just really close to each other, and is this wonrg
is it normal for guys to love their best friend not in a gay way
2007-02-18 10:16:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i love him like a brother
2007-02-18 10:21:07 · update #1
This is called friendship. Why are you questioning it? Hopefully he cares for you just as much. That's what friendship. Its a shame that we live in a day and time where we have to question our love for another person because of media crap.
2007-02-18 10:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by whosaysdiscoisdead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with two best friends loving each other I have a best friend I love her we even tell people we are sister and they know we are not we go everywhere together there is nothing I want do for her and I feel she think of me the same we grow up together. But on the other hand people talk about us say we go together. we don't and we don't care what people think we are just best friend our husband sometime think wrong of us that's how close we are.
2007-02-18 10:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by marsha w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with loving your best friend, I'm a straight, married woman and the few times a year that I see my best friend we tell each other we love each other... We even kiss on the cheek, so no worries!! Even if you were gay there is nothing wrong with that either...
2007-02-26 09:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is perfectly normal. If you go back in history and read letters between old friends from the Civil War era, you'll find that very straight men were unafraid to say they loved their comrades. It is the homophobic nature of modern society that has made even the thought of love between the same sex taboo. Remember, love is NOT sex.
2007-02-18 10:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by KCBA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that cause I am sure you to have been friends for so long and to feel that towards him is ok. Hes like a brother to you and that is ok , so yeah its normal just don't let anyone try to tell you anything different.
2007-02-25 09:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by lisaapankme26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, your best friend is someone who's close to you, and they're there for you, why wouldn't it be normal to love them? A good friend can be just like family, or in some cases closer than family.
2007-02-18 10:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ashton theKID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong if it is not in a gay way. first you really need to make sure that these feelings arent gay and you sound pretty confident that you are not in love with him in a gay way. it is not wrong at all best friends are supposed to love eachother
2007-02-18 10:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bubblez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its ok to love your friends i mean i love my friends like sister and brothers i mean i can't see it from your view cause i'm not a boy you probably just love himas a brother so no its not wrong just don't love him in any other way cause that will seem gay
2007-02-26 09:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not gay u just love ur frnd as a brother.it's normal i also love my frnd .well m not a les.just be sure dat he thinks same 4 u.like a brother or like a lover.ALL D BEST
2007-02-26 03:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by prachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely OK for you to love your friend even if it were a gay thing it is OK. Good Luck
2007-02-24 14:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋