how soon is too soon?

Question

I want babies.
we've only been married for a month, but ew dated for 2 1/2 years proir to our marriage.

I've wanted to have kids for the past year, but I wanted to make sure we were married first.

What should I do?

Answer 1

Soon enough if time is ripe, if you are ready - Go ahead!!! I think you are emotionally ready for conception, pregnancy and labour. Its not easy but your maternal/motherly instinct will see you through..Im glad you've gotten married first, for your kids will not be born out of wedlock. Wishing you all the best, on the future.!I ve got a nine-month old baby and she has brought us more happiness .My husband and i just adore and love her...Hope everything will turn out fine with your pregnancy...and by the way yes- you have to eat healthy , do your exercise and basically enjoy every moment of it.....

Answer 2

tslk to your hubby and see what he wants, as a baby needs 2 parents that equally want and love the child. If you have only been married for a month then why not enjoy married life for a bit then try for your family. Your young and have plenty time. good luck

Answer 3

WHEN YOU FEEL THE TI'ME IS RIGHT YOU WILL KNOW AND HAVING A FAMILY IS A BIG JOB I THINK YOU SHOULD WAIT A LITTLE BIT AND ENJOY BEING MARRIED IM A MOTHER OF TWO AND MARRIED OVER 4 YEARS AND I LOVE MY KIDS SO MUCH BUT AFTER YOU MAKE THAT JUMP YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME YOU MAY WANT TO TALK WITH YOUR HUBBY AND SEE WHAT HE WANTS AND MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY TO NOT HAVE ONE ON ONE TIME WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE

Answer 4

Enjoy being married for awhile. Have some fun. Enjoy the alone time. Once the baby comes nothing will be same for a long time. Best wishes!

Answer 5

Make the most of your relationship as it is now, take the chance to build the kind of solid foundations that will result in a stable, happy, family environment for when you BOTH decide to have children. Wanting children is the smaller part of the equation. Takiing the time to establish a 'personal' world that they will be secure and loved in is a bigger and important part.

Babies need that and I expect you will both provide it all in good time :-)

Answer 6

Give yourself time to get used to the marriage at least 6-12 months, then start the family, unless you are over 35, then you should start as soon as possible, as its harder to conceive after 35.

Answer 7

Being a parent I would say wait a little bit and enjoy being newlyweds. But I also know how it is to want to have a baby. Talk it over with your husband and if he is ready, go for it.

Answer 8

My husband was conceived on my in-law's wedding night (and LOTS of relatives counted backwards on their calenders by the way). For them, there was no such thing as too soon.....

Think about it, people are not supposed to have sex until they are married. And sex is supposed to be for making babies.....so technically trying to get pregnant starts on the wedding night!

I say if you both feel you are ready, then go for it!!

Answer 9

honestly i say enjoy your time together while trying because it could take a while to achieve a pregnancy its not the easiest thing to do you may get lucky and get pregnant right away or it could take up to 2 years to achieve a pregnancy it took myself that long talk to your husband also so you both are on the same page and good luck!!

Answer 10

Its not for anyone on here to tell you whether it's too soon or not.

If you want to start trying for children you need to talk to your partner about this first to make sure it's what you both want. That's the important part.

If it is what you both want then good luck with trying.