Ok Im a teenager and my bf wants to fingure me. and idk its werid.
im 16..idk what to say.
And i think im gonna let him but i never really new wat to do..like am i suppose to shave my verg. ?
its embarrising if not pleaseee tell me what most teenagers do..
do they shave that part or not.
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2007-02-18 09:45:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It is called a vagina and whether or not you want to shave it is your choice. Since you are extremely nieve in the sex department don't do anything with your boyfriend until you read more about teen sex on the web. You are not mature enough to handle any of this from the looks of your post.
2007-02-18 09:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please learn how to spell. From the sounds of your post you don't sound mature enough to really handle it. I'm 16 also and I'm not a virgin - I know plenty of people think that's too young.
But shaving is up to you. Look up some sex information on the internet. Whoever is saying that it will bleed and all that in the previous posts is not really true. I'm sure it can happen in some cases where the guy is very rough but that never happened to me.
Make sure you're at least comfortable enough with the guy to be able to tell him STOP whenever you feel uncomfortable.
If you're serious about doing it, I would suggest sort of rubbing a little bit down there (no not fingering yourself) so you can feel a little of the sensation and see if you're very comfortable with it or not... If you're not comfortable with doing that with yourself, I would suggest not doing anything with him.
2007-02-18 12:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Blaze 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. If he does that to you you are still a virgin, he did not put his penis in your vagina
this is still a major desision dont do it unless you are ready
2. Just whatever you are more comfortable with i would recomend just trimming the are not completly shaving it off because it will itch when it grows back
3. if you are at all uncomfortable with him finguring you tell him you are not ready if he is any type of man he will understand if not rethink your desision about him being your boyfriend
save yourself there is more than one reason why this is the right thing to do but that is another posting
good luck if you do deside to do it sit back and relax
2007-02-18 10:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately do not ask your mom about this! that would be way too akward!! If you and your boyfriend are at the stage in your relationship where you would like to start this sort of sexual activity, just be sure you are ready. Do not do it just becaue you feel pressured, do it becaue YOU want to. A lot of the girls I know shave "down there". Either all or part, or at least they trim. It is just cleaner feeling and less bushy. But it is a personal decision. Fingering, hand jobs, blow jobs, etc. are part of life. Just relax, and enjoy it!
2007-02-18 09:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by ambiti0n_xo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some do, but really it's up to you honey. I don't know of any girl that shaved it just because they were gonna get fingered. Normally they shave it just because they think it's looks nicer that way. If you wanna make sure it looks good and you're not sure if you wanna shave it, then try just trimming it up. Beard trimmers work best in my opinion. Hope everything works out for you!
2007-02-18 09:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are a virgin first thing to say is he can pop your cherry even with fingers.
Yes a lot of women shave their privates, especially the ones who like to "you know".
Think of what kind of person you want to be seen as.
Think of what he will expect in return.
Make your decision
But if you decide to shave use cream and be very careful
It is generally ok to leave a little triangle, "runway", but bare is kind of wierd.
2007-02-18 09:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by marymouse26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 16 years old, if your still a virgen ,stay that way. Don't let that boy touch you in anyway you don't want to be touched. It would be a very good idea not to let a boy in that area period. Fingering will still cause you not to be a virgen. It will hurt and there will be blood. If you let that boy do that then he will also want to go further. He's testing the waters. I'm sure he's just wanting to see how far you will let him go. Save yourself for Marrage, beleave me when I say that. Because you will wish you did after it happens.
2007-02-18 09:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tiff 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i'm 16 right now and i am sexually experienced. i was 14 the 1st time i was fingered. i have my vaginal area waxed. you shouldn't shave or wax unless YOU want to. if you really want to do this with your bf just relax and go with the flow. you'll probably be nervous but after a few minutes you'll be fine and probably enjoy it.
2007-02-18 09:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by rocker_chick 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How is her being Hispanic making it hard for you to ask her? Any ways im sure she will understand. Just tell her that all your friends are wearing padded bras. And you would feel more confident if you had one.
2016-05-24 03:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
akward i know.... and to tell you the truth i have been wondering the same thing. good luck i hope u really like ur bf though if your going to do that. =]
2007-02-18 09:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋