I am married and I really enjoy my husband. Like most women I want to spice up my sex life. It seems like men always enjoy and benifit from sex (if you know what I mean) and I would like to do the same and be carefree in bed. Any good and mature suggestions would be great!
2007-02-18 09:40:34 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him to take his time and use his hands on you before he sticks anything else in there. The fingers never go soft and if he'll listen to you or read up on it a bit then he can make you "get there" every single time just like he does. He also has a mouth that is good for more than eating just food. ;)
2007-02-18 09:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the sexiest organ in the human body is the brain...I suggest you feed it what it needs. Imagination is a super turn on if the input material is stimulating enough. Read some of the material from Shayla M and you will definitely have your mind set right. She is not x rated , just suggestive. Enjoy!
2007-02-18 10:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by aquarius448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you are used to but toys are always fun and pornos will get you in the mood. Or try some massage oils or a feather tickler. Give each other a back rub first to get in the mood. Try wierd positions or wierd places like a hotel or the dining room table. Anything to spice it up a notch.
2007-02-18 09:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ikkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first have to love yourself. I don't mean "love" like that, but I mean seriously love the way you look, smell taste ect..
Once you've come to terms with your body, then you need to gain confidence in the bedroom. Your husband will be down for almost ANYTHING you bring to him in bed. I'm dead serisous. So If you want to have a little role playing, then dress up like, oh say a naughty school girl, and tell him how you need to bring your grades up in school or else! Tell him you'll do ANYTHING for that "A". and just take it from there.
Give him the pleasure of more oral sex. He will thank you by doing the same.
You also should look at some of your own sexual hangups. Lets go with a very common one for women.
Alot of women do not like anal sex. (i'm not saying that is your hangup, but we'll use it as an example)
"It hurts."
"It's dirty."
"It's not natural"
"It's unchristian."
"I'm embrassed my partner will reject me if I ask for it"
"Thats to kinky for me"
those are just some reasons women give for not wanting to do that particular act. But find out what your hangup is, address WHY you don't like it, and if it's something little like "I think my husband will think i'm sick (barring its illegal)" then just ask him "Hey, I want to try *insert dirty thing here* tonight. What do you say?" He will probably jump on it, or have the same hangup you did.
Just remember, your husband loves you. He loves making love to you! So anything you bring to him, no matter how silly you think it is, will mean the world to him!
Good luck
2007-02-18 09:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a show. Sit him down and tell him all he can do till YOU tell him otherwise is watch. Start pleasuring yourself...how far you go and for how long is up to you....and he can not move till you say so. If you can time it right just before you are about to orgasm tell him to come over beside you and give him a BJ as you orgasm....he will never forget it trust me. what ever you decide to do...just make sure its something that you will enjoy too....its a BIG turn on for a guy to know that his partner is really into what is happening....not that they are just doing it for them.
Have fun *S*
2007-02-18 09:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words: Romantic and relaxing! - ok for romatic why do no longer you're taking an afternoon of togther. bypass on your place order some chinese language foodstuff, get a tumbler of wine. And sit down in front of the T.V. and communicate and have relaxing. Then take a superb romatic tub or bathe (in case you wanna warmth issues up) and take it from there. The classic nonetheless works.
2016-09-29 07:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by fabbozzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY THIS game in bed.I have played this with many women and all loved it.It's called TURNS,or My Turn Your Turn.Hubby's turn,his picks what he wants you to do to him and how. Then it's your turn.Tell him you read it in a mag and it sounded really FUN because IT IS and the SKY IS THE LIMIT,,,,don't for get about things like whip cream,ice cream and on and on on on on...GET IT.......
2007-02-18 10:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just enjoying yourself .Do what really turns you on .Stop trying so hard to please him. How long have you been married by now you should be comfortable around him .I'm sure the more your having fun the hotter hes going to get.
relax enjoy
2007-02-18 09:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could always try role playing u could catch him off guard dress up like a naughty nurse or whatever comes to mind and be standing by the door when he comes home
2007-02-18 09:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by ruby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to know how to spice up your sex life if we don't know how unspicy it is now. What have you tried and done thus far?
2007-02-18 09:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋