I have a big bodied friend that is renting a bed/bathroom from me and now the toilet seat rattles when you try to sit on it.I think it's loose from her body weight.I know that it's because of her because it's her bathroom!I dont want to be mean but...Dam what should I say to her?
2007-02-18 09:28:03 · 17 answers · asked by Tiftif 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's a public bathroom that our friends have to use.guys and girls and its embarassing
2007-02-18 09:56:20 · update #1
Say nothing. Remember, she probably already knows what is going on. Being a large person is not all easy. Friendship is more precious than a toilet seat. And besides, if it is her bathroom, then why should it affect you? Do you have a security deposit? If yes, deduct the 14.99 seat from it when and if she moves out.
2007-02-18 09:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by littlemonkeytoez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she will have to replace it at her expense when it breaks. Let her know she is responsible for the well being of everything in the bedroom and bathroom. If this doesn't work remove the toilet seat and don't replace it.
2007-02-18 09:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had this exact same problem. The screws are just loosening. If you tighten them the seat won't rattle anymore. They will loosen over time again but you just tighten them again. (If you want to make her aware of the problem, nicely ask her to tighten them. She will figure out (if she hasn't already) what is making the seat loose. with my ex-room mate, it was because of the way she had to lean way to the side to wipe, and she corrected this by leaning forward to wipe instead of to the side. Hope this makes sense! Good Luck-
2007-02-18 09:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by mystery_me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My aunt is a large woman and we ended up having to get a wooden toilet seat because it was the only one that could hold up to her. Good luck!
2007-02-18 09:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start working out and join some programs then ask her to join you and in about 2months she should lose some pounds. And if my sensitive idea doesnt work while u two are fighting say well if u want to go that far then why dont u use a tredmill and lose a few pounds u fat ***.
2007-02-18 09:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mike P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sugar free sounds nasty. I would stick to the sugar. Fruit snacks are good for you and there are some that comes in the form of a bear and they taste so much better than gummy bears!
2016-05-24 03:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing. She can't lose the weight overnight and you can't expect her to squat and do her business. If the seat breaks, have her pay to replace it. That seems fair enough.
2007-02-18 09:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If it breaks just replace the damn thing....It's not like you won't ever find another one or they are difficult to install. You can do it yourself with hiring a professional for crying out loud!!!!
2007-02-18 09:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about how damaging it can be for her health. DON'T meantion you're meantioning this 'cause of a toilet.
2007-02-18 10:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Omer D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say nothing!! how much is a new seat?? dont hurt her feelings what you doing in her bathroom anyway???
2007-02-18 09:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋