plus size women?

Question

i just asked this in an other form, but i think i asked in the wrong room
i am attracted to plus size women, i know that is not the norm in todays day and age. However I get very worked up when looking at them or talking to them. My wife is a size 8 do i tell her, that i think larger women are attractive. i even buy mags and go on line to look at large women, is this ok? Am i weird?

i am a very in shape guy of 6'3 190 , so i am not a big guy,,...and i would never ask my wife to gain any weight, i gues i just think about large women while we have sex...

no this is not a joke....large women are a turn on to me much more than skinny girls

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Answer 1

I think you're perfectly normal. You find women attractive whom the media tells us are ugly. So you're not in the majority. But we're told chicks with nose rings and blue hair are ugly too, and the right man will find a blue-haired pierced woman hot as hell. So don't put too much thought into it.

Should you tell your wife? That's hard. Regardless of whether you like big women or blonde women, you'd be essentially telling her that you are very attracted to women who DON'T LOOK LIKE HER. Even the most understanding woman will most likely become a little insecure after learning this. I don't recommend lying to her, but you have to be careful not to damage your marriage.

Fat chicks rock!

Answer 2

People are into different things. And your preferences are not that weird. I don't know what you consider plus-sized, but many men like a curvier woman. Heck, I'm definitely not tiny, but I've not had any troubles, and not just in the "you have a great personality, so, whatever" way.

You're not weird. And your wife is probably not always thinking about you, either, so I wouldn't feel too guilty about that. As long as it's not affecting your regular sex life, and your porn habits aren't affecting your social or married life, I think you're fine. If they are, you need to talk to your wife. Sometimes, people just aren't compatible sexually in a way. The foot fetishist winds up with the person who can't stand having her feet touched. It sucks, but if it's a problem, you guys will need to work it out somehow. Not by her gaining weight, mind, because that's not healthy for her.

Answer 3

If i grow to be a guy i'd truly take plus sized over skinny. I advise who needs a p.c.. of ribs on you? Plus sized is way more beneficial advantageous yet like in the adventure that they are so fat that it will smother you on your sleep, then no no longer that tremendous. i'm fairly small and my boyfriend loves me for who i'm yet he's like eat some meat hun you want it. i'm basically evidently skinny yet from time to time I hate it.

Answer 4

you are not weird at all. Actually, if there were more like you, then maybe half of the girls in this world who are anorexic wouldnt be. I do sometimes concern about my weight when seeing all of those toothpick girls walking the runway, but then again to you that isnt beautiful, and it isnt to get into reality. so it is nice to know that at least someone doesnt go for the skinny wannabees.

Answer 5

Personally I like athletic toned people and I adhore obesity. I could never go for a man with a huge "keg". I prefer the "six pack." However this is just a PERSONAL preference and too each their own. I find that's quite alright you liking heavier women and such. It's quite alright. Just because society thinks that skinny women are the ones who are supposed to be attractive doesn't mean that it HAS to be so. Also I know more then one guy who likes heavy women.

Answer 6

Nothing wrong with that.

Why are men attracted to skinny women? It's the same thing, a personal preference.

I think larger women are the true beauties...

Answer 7

Nothing wrong with your preference. We all like different traits in people. You are right in not trying to make your wife gain weight though because it is not healthy. Keep her healthy and keep your fantasy. If it works for you than that is great.

Answer 8

You aren't weird at all!

In fact, as a plus-size woman myself, I have to thank the Lord that guys like you are around!

As long as you don't go cheating on your wife, enjoy your love of large ladies! We appreciate it!

Answer 9

This is not weird or unnatural.

Think of it this way: you are a part of nature, right? If that's true, then nothing you say, think, feel or do could be "unnatural."

Answer 10

We are all individuals. As long as you arent hurting anybody, dont feel bad. You have every right to be attracted to whomever you please.