Is it Biblically alright to have oral sex with your spouce?

Answer 1

I'd like to know where it says it's not all right since some people answered that... but the person who wrote about 1 Corinthians did a great job explaining God's design for sex in marriage and how everything is permissible but not beneficial. The other great passage in the Bible on sex in marriage is the entire book of Song of Songs (also called Song of Solomon).

Some view SOS 1:12 "While the king was at his table, my perfume spread its fragrance" as the Beloved, who is the wife, talking about the Lover, who is the husband, (king) performing oral sex on her (her genitals = his table) and her releasing pheromones in orgasm. Then later in the book, 2:3-4, the Beloved says "Like Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my lover among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. He has taken me to the banquet hall, and his banner over me is love." which some interpret as the Beloved performing oral sex on her Lover.

Before getting yelled at for being graphic, here are the references to other verses in the Song of Songs that seem to be referring to the God-given pleasures of oral sex within the confines of marriage. Some you may need to read the surrounding verses to understand the full context. The verses I've heard that possibly also refer to oral sex in marriage are: 4:10, 4:16, 5:1, 5:2, 8:2.

Answer 2

I have studied the bible for 24 years and I know it fairly well.
here is a scripture you can use I was also in a marriage for 19 years and I dealt with these issues.
12"Everything is permissible for me"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me"—but I will not be mastered by anything.


There is alot more you can look up but the only advice with out getting into your back round is that in a marriage all things are good, sexually as long as it does not effect the Conscience
of the other, anal ,oral all are part of the pleasure God designed for us to have in the marriage. But their are many victims of abuse and abusers and not all sexual relations are of a pure nature. A spouse who is wanting the best and acting in love will take into consideration these factors. Alchohal for instance is not a sin the sin happens when we cause others to stumble by not being considerate of thier needs. Lets say your husband has a drinking problem and is trying to stop if you although you have control when you drink say to bad I can handle it you have to deal with this your self and continue to drink in front of him then he needs to yes deal with it him self but you are responsible for not acting in love by possibly putting a stumbling block in his path. Sex in any form with your mate is wonderful to God but not everything is wonderful to us and you yourself need to search your heart and ask your self why or why not!
If it makes you feel badly ask God to reveal why and search out your own heart if your spouse is making it ugly to you then again you need to figure it out/ But remember God created us to enjoy each others bodies in Marriage!

Answer 3

Instead of asking us this question and getting stupid remarks....you should ask a preacher/pastor/father, etc depending on your religion and see what they say! They know the bible better then any of us here!

Answer 4

Biblically speaking no you are not suppose to. There are many things that sexually couples are not suppose to partake in.

Answer 5

Change the question. Instead of is it right to do this...........
Change it to Is there anything to prohibit doing this........

Same question, but could be very different answers

Answer 6

Read the Bible and find out.

Answer 7

No it isn't.