His children love me, they run to me before they go to him. Unfortunately, their mother has passed away. I don't know if I should approach him for a relationship or just keep it friends. However he does make several remarks to me that he wants more. I really don't know what I should do. We have become very good friends and I really don't want to spoil that. What should I do?
2007-02-18 09:03:32 · 14 answers · asked by peenutt1975 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say to take take more time before you decide any thing, your 1 wrong step and you will lose this friendship and most importantly those kids will lose a mother like figure.
Evaluate all your options and then talk to him, if you have any concerns let him know about those concerns and ask him in return if he has any observations about you and then it would be easy for you to decide to either remain friends or get married to him.
2007-02-18 09:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by IMRAN R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. It become a serpent. God became it right into a snake after the evil deed with the fruit. 2. we are uncertain of what kind of fruit it become. It become in all threat a extra tropical fruit, yet we won't comprehend that for confident, the two, i think. 3. Nowhere in the Bible does it say that God is an previous guy or that He has a white beard. 4. The Bible does not make clean whether or no longer different human beings have been created besides to Adam and Eve. It does not make clean what number babies Adam and Eve had. And, in view that Adam and Eve have been the two created with the help of God, there genes could be organic and the unfavorable factors of incest (deformities, psychological retardation, etc) does no longer have existed so siblings with siblings could have been ok. 5. i like lovable memories and human beings behaving, so I have not got any situation with all which you stated.
2016-09-29 07:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by fabbozzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's a girl to guy thing then it would take a real ---hole of a guy to throw away your friendship, but single men with kids really need help usually so if he has made any kind of reference to having more with you then he probably does want you. He may be afraid of exactly the same thing as you are...messing up a good freindship. Why don't you just throw it out there sometime when you 2 are alone. Say something like "When are you gonna take me out, Big Boy? or am I going to have to get somebody else?" Say it with a big smile and see how he reacts.
If he does like you then there's always the fear that you may not want him because he has kids. Men have an even worse fear of this than women usually. Just because you get along great with them isn't enough for him to be sure that you'd like to help raise them and "keep daddy warm" on those long cold winter nights! ;)
I say tell him.
2007-02-18 09:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal experience I have found that sex changes any relationship. Depends if you want him as a friend or a lover. And how you would feel if you lost touch with him. I suggest you try to hold on and see which way you want to go. Sex could ruin what you have and thats sad. However having a great lover is tempting too. Its tough. Try to make a decision you wont regret. Good Luck.
2007-02-18 09:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you feel. If you want a relationship with him
Hi__________, I really am found of you-well a little more than found. I was wondering if you would consider having a real date with me sometime. I am a little embarrassed,but his girl o on the Internet said I should do this (just kidding) you catch my drift though (?)
Just ask him-time is valuable and then you can take charge of your feeling to start healing from his rejection or preparing to date him. Good luck ok.
2007-02-18 09:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes interested, maybe still a little gun shy, it takes awhile to get over stuff like that,i wouldn't push anything, but maybe a nice dinner out or maybe you cook a nice dinner in, get rid of kids for night, might give him the time and right atmosphere to talk to you, but be ready to be open with him about your feelings and your doughts it's, its really kinda scary to risk a good friendship,but hey it could be the love of your life all within your grip,and you know he likes kids,go for it, just be very careful, cause its not only you who could get hurt, there's kids involved
2007-02-18 09:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want. If you see yourself wanting to get serious with him then there are ways to let him know. If he ever makes a remark about getting serious, then just throw your arms around him and tell him, "Show me."
2007-02-18 09:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a relationship, be very careful.
Ask him some fishing questions, like whether or not he thinks he could ever fall for anyone again...
If so, what would he be looking for...
Let him see your curiosity and respond to it naturally.
His answers will tell it all.
2007-02-18 09:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by sammbertt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it, think of how happy you guys can be together! Think of yourselves being a family. Take the chance! Live!
All the best to you both!
2007-02-18 09:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a 'friend' first and then developing a relationship is probably the best thing you can do.
2007-02-18 09:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋