What's wrong with people?
2007-02-18 09:00:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not much of a math whiz, are you? Takes 9 months for each bun in the oven.
Maybe it's the stress of having brats around that breaks them up. Kids are stressful and expensive, people don't seem to figure out that part until it's too late.
2007-02-18 09:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I very much doubt its a deliberate act - no one would plan to have a child then decide to be a single parent with 2 or 3 children.
Children radically change the dynamics of a relationship and you can never fortell how it will affect you - some couples just cant adapt to the change and it can be for the best that they seperate...
Trust me, there is nothing worse than growing up in a family where your parents are constantly fighting and you just wished they'd divorce and get it over with...but they wont because of the kids.
2007-02-18 09:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by karma_au_1984 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Holy Crap!!!! That's so true,I thought it was just a fashion no no that was spreading like a bad habit......Then it struck me in the worse way, when our second child was only two. Maybe people don't realize what it takes to raise children? Not that my kids were the reason we split, cuz the kids aren't the reason...Parenting is by far the hardest job I ever had to do, and its not the most glamorus, or a High Dollar Paying Position, and alot of the times either parent feels unappreciated.......but if a marriage can last through raising their children, THAT IS THE MOST REWARDING ACCOMPLISHMENT EVER!
2007-02-18 15:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Skinz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that marriage is not held on the same moral level it once was. People think that if they are unhappy then divorce is the answer to solve everything instead of communication, counseling, give and take and mutual respect for each other. I also feel that people jump into marriage to soon in some cases because of lust instead of love.
2007-02-18 09:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people aren't paying attention to how much children changes a relationship...even an good one.
So when you're relationship isn't too good and then you had a couple of children to the mix it's sometimes too much and the marriage breaks down.
In a marriage both people have to pay attention and fix whatever it is that's even a little broken.
2007-02-18 09:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Husbands and wives need to communicate more,make family planning and stick to it,like how many kids they want and how soon they want to have them cause if they don't then things get out of control,the women will get pregnant steady and would have no time for the husband,and both husbands and wives need to understand that things can't be the same after having kids.
2007-02-18 10:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by pacific30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe its because that person wasn't their soul-mate. If they had found the person they wanted to spend the rest of their life with they would work as hard and as long as it took to make the relationship last. Deep down you always know if the person you are with is the one. But I do believe there are people out there that will never be blessed with a soul-mate cause they don't have what it takes to deserve one.
2007-02-18 11:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by pumpkinautumn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage and parenting are two different things. Just becuase a couple divorces doesn't mean they no longer want to be parents. What is it about someone making choices for THEMSELVES do you not get?
2007-02-18 09:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree! Its Stupid!
2007-02-18 10:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Fabo Chikk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they aren't very brite!
2007-02-18 09:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋