Please advise me, how do you know when your friendship is turning into something more?

Question

This is on both parts, both from the boys point of view and mine...

I'm feeling so lost and confused right now

He's told me he'd fallen in love with me, but i think he's getting confused with liking me as a friend and something more - for example, i stopped talking to him for about a month due to an argument and apparently he missed me a lot and thats when he realised he loved me

but now im starting to doubt myself about whether im really JUST friends with him

So how do you know?

Answer 1

Well,are you attracted to him? could you imagine yourself dating him? do you see him in a romantic sense? or is it just because he's said this to you that you're considering it in order not to lose a good friendship? think very carefully,you could lose him altogether if you enter into something you don't want.

Answer 2

Don't get upset. You don't have to make a decision right now. Just keep spending time with him and eventually you'll know. This sounds cliche, but follow your instincts. If your spending time with him and you really like him, and it feels right to take it to the next level, then go for it. If it doesn't feel right and you're not attracted to him, then don't let him convince you that you feel something. Just because you're friends doesn't mean you can't say no. If I were you, I would keep spending time with him and see where it goes. Don't try to figure everything out right now, you'll just get confused. Good luck!

Answer 3

if you see him as a friend keep it theat way, he has planted a seed in your head now you are doubting your feelings! yes you may love him LIKE A FRIEND but just think if you got with him and it didnt work out you have not only lost a b/friend but your best friend too think about this one very carefully, gd luck

Answer 4

you don't either tell him your just friends and that you will be forever or go for it and risk been with him for a short while and thern never seeing him again