and if so why? i was reading a ad in the friday ad, and there is this women seeking a man but married and she would like it kept discrete .
what do you lot think?
2007-02-18 08:50:13 · 16 answers · asked by whispernikki 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Life sometimes gets complicated and life doesnt always turn out as its supposed to. Perhaps this lady has a sick husband. Perhaps she is afraid to hurt him. There are a million possible reasons but 9/10 it turns out in pain. I never judge others till I have walked a mile in their shoes.
2007-02-18 08:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
no i am not and will never have an affair cos u always get found out. and the pain when everything is out in the open is unbearable. the betrayal and how do u regain that trust which is lost? how some married people can do this for years is beyond me.
its unthinkable what these women are lookin for and u would be surprised that married men will reply to this ad cos they want someone discreet too!!!!!!! how sad.
2007-02-18 16:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a recipe for disaster. Affairs hurt ALL people involved at some stage. Any person not getting enough out of a relationship should talk to their partner first to try to discover the cause and solution
2007-02-18 16:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am having one because it is good to have someone you can talk to and not have to worry a bout allt eh nagging or having to put up with all the drama. Also there is no well I am not in the mood or Leave me alone I am tired. A discreet relationship is good because all each of you have to do is call meet have sex and go your way. IF you want to IM me anytime we might chat some
2007-02-18 16:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very common, actually. Alot of adults think cheating is just something that inevitable happens in a relationship. But really, it just means they are weak and not capable of keeping their commitments in life. The woman will almost certainly find a man to have her fling with, but she won't have anybody who will stand by her side through the tough times in life.
2007-02-18 16:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've decided to have an affair with an old boyfriend who is married. What the hell. My husband got involved with and left his family for a married woman. Every woman for herself.
2007-02-18 17:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.....and NEVER would do that to ANYONE...never mind the one you are suppose to be in love with....and if you are no longer in love with them then have the Balls to leave BEFORE you start seeing someone else. The "Pain" of being left is FAR less than the hurt caused by an affair.
2007-02-18 17:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a sad statement that some people put so little value on honesty and respect and trust...and have no conscience.
But, what goes around comes around so there is that knowledge that unkewl deeds do not go unpunished (so to speak)...cheaters also okay themselves to be cheated on...fools...
2007-02-18 16:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not having an affair but i could if i wanted one.
my friends workmate will only go out with married men. apparently they buy you more presents incase you tell their wife!
half the stuff in her flat is what he has bought for her. maybe its something like that?
2007-02-18 16:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is disrespectful to marriage. I would never cheat on my hubby. I am sadden for the husband that does not know his wife would rather post for another man rather then be honest her own husband. Shame on her!
2007-02-18 16:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋