like the most disfigured deformed person on eath how do i ave up for reconstructive surgery when i am too scared to go out because of peoples reactions when they see my ugly face
2007-02-18 08:32:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I really think you need to seek help about this, because I've noticed you've posed similar questions in the past. If it is such a big issue with you, then you need to confront it with a professional and not with a lot of strangers on here. It might be that you have a case of that body dismorphia thingy-me-jig.
2007-02-18 08:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I looked at your past questions and one of them said you were in uglynet.com under ugly woman. Well I looked you up and found your picture...And you're not ugly at all? I dont know what you're talking about?
Is this the picture of you or did I find the wrong one?
http://www.uglynet.com/profile/00000373.jpg
If this is you, you should know that you are beautiful and I dont know how you can call yourself disfigured and deformed. I mean, do you honestly look in the mirror and see something ugly? I mean, I have low self esteem too so I sort of understand where you're coming from, but how you can possibly mistake your image so much??? You're a beautiful woman. You dont have to look like Britney Spears or Julia Roberts in order to be pretty. In fact I find overly beautiful people to be ugly because they are so obcessed with thier appearance that they dont care about anyone else.
I hope you dont mind me posting the link to your picture here, and i hope you dont take this offensively but honestly, if you think a beautiful woman like you is ugly like joseph merrick, maybe you should talk to a psychiatrist?? You have nothing to worry about. Please dont keep on like this.
2007-02-18 15:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 07:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I thought BDD myself- body dysmorphic disorder, it's closely related to OCD-
let me tell you who would know the best.
Dr Yaryura in Great Neck, NY. and his therapist wife.
My god these people are pioneers and world renowned in this field, and any links you might find should help.
If you call the Biobehavioral Institute over there in Great Neck, Nassau County, NY, they can hopefully tell you how to get the right person in your area for this particular problem.
And by the way, this tends to be very much a neurological problem, and is biological.
You will be fine, honey.
There are people who are not so great looking who manage jsut fine, so that's not the issue, even if you don't look like Anna Nicole (most of us don't and wouldn't anyway.)
Your face is NOT the problem, believe me.
You'll be fine.
Go for it!
2007-02-18 08:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're honestly that disfigured, maybe you can approach a tv show like Dr 90210 or something on Discovery Health to see if they can use you on tv to do a before/after surgery.
2007-02-18 08:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are really scared to go out then ask a doctor to call with you, you can get help and you probably dont look as bad as you think you do. Good luck!
2007-02-18 09:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bet is you aren't, or you'd have been on Sky News by now. If your self image is that bad get psych help before surgery. My gut feeling is that you are actually attractive, you just don't know it yet. Be strong, and believe in yourself.
2007-02-18 08:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Buckaroo Banzai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sticks and stones girl child. Live for yourself and F*CK them !
2007-02-18 08:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u so down on yourself. beauty comes from with in you do whats best for yourself .
2007-02-18 08:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by lou. c. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a bag over your head
2007-02-18 08:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by ja_ross_58 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋