why do married men cheat?

Question

I'm 20 and Guy fromm work who is 29 and married keeps flirting with me and we kissed and had sex he has jus had a kid and he gets no sex off his wife.
after a few weeks we stoped doing stuff i aked him if we would end up doing anything again he said probly not no and a few days later he started flirting with me again and nipping my *** and stuff i like him but i have a b/friend of 4 years he has been with his wife the same amount of time, were good friends to i dont no what to do, it's wrong what i did i know it does take two and i want to forget about it and still be able to work with him help! please!

Answer 1

End it now. He will not leave his wife, I can tell you that right now. They cheat, because they can. Most men are capable of it. To keep your position at work respectable, you need to end it pronto. Your coworkers will talk about you and not in a good way. Tell him he was a temporary piece of *** and you have no desire to continue with him. Tell him if he's horny to go pound his pud till it hits the ceiling.

Answer 2

The married guy is cheating on his wife.
You are cheating on your boyfriend of 4 years.

Right now you have gotten away with it all and probably think you're both really cool. Isn't it great to treat your significant other like a fool? Isn't it great that when your boyfriend tells you he loves you that you secretly snicker and laugh and think about the married guy you screwed? Isn't it fun to have the security of the relationship with your boyfriend while you are secretly looking elsewhere and having sex with other men?

You and the married guy are both pieces of dog crap, living in the toilet of life.

But I bet you see yourself as a poor confused little girl, all taken advantage of. The married guy says he gets no sex from his wife. That's just what HE says. Why don't you ask her yourself? I wonder how his wife got pregnant? Is it a cool thrill to cheat and have this secret sex thing? Cause that's all it is honey. You suckin' his dink, thinking about how superior you are to his wife. But you don't have the guts or decency to speak to her face to face, now do you? You prefer to work in the shadows, behind people's backs.

Tell your boyfriend. Tell his wife. Take responsibility. Accept the consequences and act like a goddamn adult. Become a goddamn human being again and work on being a decent person and you will never be faced with this retarded situation again.

But I am 100% sure you will take the cowards way out and just do nothing, cause that's what whiny little sex toys like you always do.

So I'll just tell you what you want to hear anyway. "It's the man's fault. He took advantage of you. Your boyfriend wasn't there for you. Nothing is your fault. Brad Pitt should dump Angelina Jolie and marry you and you can both live in a castle and ride unicorns."

Answer 3

There really is nothing much you CAN do at this point. You CHOSE to enter an adulterus union with this man and now it is affecting you in the work place and is going to start affecting your work performance. My adivce is to look for other employment because eventually you're going to be unemployed anyway.

Answer 4

Why are there women who have no problem having sex with a married man ? and its not only married men who cheat, you may not be married but you have a long term relationship and you CHEATED also, so y did u ask why do married men cheat ? why does anyone cheat is the question ? you are no better than a married man !!!!!!!

Answer 5

well married men aren't the only ones who cheat married women do too! It's called LUST! you are right it is wrong to have the affairs in the first place but you can end it! Just say NO more! and mean it....

Answer 6

Gee, I don't know.

Oh wait, it may be the fact that his wife is not having sex with him.

I'm not saying it makes it okay, but you know, it just _might_ be a factor.

Answer 7

Are you BLIND?!??

You are as guilty of cheating as he is!!!

Figure out why YOU cheat and you'll know why he does.

My god the audacity. Stunning.