And dare I say it can happen to anyone who can't handle the pressure. Believe me, I know what I am talking about. My mother lived with my father for about 20 years until I got to be this age, and now I am 21, still can't drive, I am in college, and I don't have any money and neither of my parents have a job, and my mother is still in Troy, Ny after she forced my brother(22), sister(19), and I to move there from Md in May 2006 with her and a crazy woman she had met from there online. We had to move all in 1 day and abandon the house and everything in it that we did not have time to find or could not take with us. In August 2006 my mother and the woman drove me back to Md because I am in college, but not without the woman screaming her lungs out at me, cursing my mother's parents out, and threatening to kill me, all while my mother did and said nothing except sit in the vehicle and look sad and scared.
2007-02-18
08:24:48
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The woman also said I can never return to their apartment in Ny even though a majority of the belongings I had left still remain there and I want them. So I have been living on campus and with my father at his mother's house in Md with his niece and her twin 1 year old boys and her 8 year old son. My father only has a 91 chevrolet which will not pass inspection and he only has until April. And his mother has no computer or internet access and is very particular about us using electric or even taking a shower. Things are also very chaotic with the twins and 8 year old. I am having to deal with all of this on top of going to college and trying to find an internship for the summer when I have never even had a job even though I have been trying to get one since I was 14. If I am being perfectly honest I feel as if I am having to teach myself a lot of the things my parents should have taught me and having to confront my father's problems when I should be focusing on college.
2007-02-18
08:25:13 ·
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But my point is I believe that Britney Spears was in a similar situation to that of my mother. She did not want to deal with pressure that was being put on her by being famous in the same way my mother did not want to deal with her family anymore, and she just decided to do whatever she could to sort of "leave" all of it behind. She shaved her head to get rid of a part of her she no longer wanted to deal with, and believe it or not I would say she probably feels a lot better about herself now that she has done something to "free" herself. She wanted to do something relieve herself of the pressure being placed upon her, and apparently shaving her head was the only way she could think of to make that happen.
2007-02-18
08:25:30 ·
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