I am in a relationship with an FTM and he hasnt completed the bottom surgery yet so we use a strap on we we have intercourse. He said that he can imagine how good it feels and that makes him have an orgasm. Is this possible? or do you think maybe he is just saying it to please me in some way?
2007-02-18 07:59:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i do not want to hear any religious crap. thank you to all who are giving me wonderful answers.
2007-02-18 08:24:47 · update #1
Its a completely mind over matter thing, I 'd say that from some experience that if the mind is "there" then an orgasm is completely possible, especially if you two are in love and are very much on the same page together. If he is completely enthralled in the act of thrusting and penetrating, then there are other nerve endings elsewhere that can be stimulated and add to the overall imaginative creation of a "penis" to be stimulated to orgasm.
Don't be concerned with the mechanics of how, just embrace and cherish the moment. As long as you both are happy with one another.
2007-02-18 09:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by graycherubs3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that its hitting the clit that is still there which is also playing a part in the feeling
but i've actually read somewhere that females can have an orgasm simply by imagining things or by doing things to someone else...especially if they're going down on another girl because whatever they do to her, they can imagine it on themselves and what it feels like
hope that helped a little =)
2007-02-18 08:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. I'm not gay or anything, but all i gotta say is "nathan and whitney" is a ******* asshole. Don't use GOD in your own opinions...
as for you question, I don't know, It could be possible. I've been so turned on with my man sometimes where he doesn't even have to touch me, and I'm horny. IS that the same thing? lol. or it could be that as someone else suggested, the strap on is stimulating the clitoris.
2007-02-18 08:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know, I assume you mean "he" is really a "she" but making the transformation to male? If so, he still has sex organs and I would assume a physical orgasm is still possible. It is sweet that he cares how you feel and is letting you know how happy you make him. Who knows? Maybe these overwhelming feelings are as good as an orgasm for him!
2007-02-18 08:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he still has a fully-functioning clitoris, then perhaps the entire strap on sex acts do give stimulation..
i honestly don't know about emotional orgasms.. orgasms are based on nerve endings.. i've studied M2F and how they can preserve the nerves, but i honestly have no idea what they do for F2Ms. but if he hasn't had the operation yet, then i assume clitoral stimulation would still produce an orgasm.
2007-02-18 08:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Absolutely.
2016-05-24 03:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be. A doctor would know best. Maybe psychosomatic blasts, though, right? A doctor, especially one with TS experience, should know...
2007-02-18 08:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by Nina Caliente 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even in this section, Nathan and Whitley. You obviously don't belong here.
2007-02-18 08:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about finding Christ, then finding a real man, and then waiting to be married, and then have the awesome sex God intends for couples to PROCREATE or to express love. Why do we have to pervert everything God intended?
You and him (FTM) are so important to God! He wants all of us to live in a life of peace and happiness! Oh and let her know that by changing body parts does not change who SHE is. God loves her the way she is and would like her to be happy as a beautiful creation.
2007-02-18 08:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
I dont think hes sayin it to please u. But if he is I think thats kinda sweet. Dont take it as a big lie.
2007-02-18 08:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by The Mastermind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋