by the way iam a c-section.and i feel my body is ok and nothing is wrong,plz help me.
2007-02-18 07:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by vorojak 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you feel healed body and mind then go for it
2007-02-18 08:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by sunny_day_grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask other people if you are ready, I have to be honest and say that I don't think you are. It isn't just the physical healing that needs to take place but the emotional as well. I really recommend getting counseling. Loosing a baby before they even have a chance to be born can be very traumatizing and getting pregnant before you are really ready can have some negative affects on you and the new child.
Please get advice from somebody who is qualified to help you in this situation and good luck!
2007-02-18 16:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Chasity 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm very sorry for your loss.
You will know when the time is right for you. My husband and I had a stillborn son.......and we played this game where I was ready he wasn't, then he was ready I wasn't. Finally we both got on the same page. We had a baby 16 months after our stillborn son.
Good luck!!!
2007-02-18 16:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by JS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I want to say how sorry I am for your loss. I've never had any children, but I can't imagine how tough that must be to carry your child, then find out it's dead. anyway, to answer your question, I think if you feel you're ready to try again, then I say go for it. good luck, and I hope you have a beautiful healthy little baby. :-)
2007-02-18 16:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry about your loss. Give yourself time to grieve the loss of this child. Be good to yourself. When you are ready you will know it. Best to talk with your doctor about when would be a good time for you, they should have the correct answer for you.
I found this forum/chat-board where women were talking about getting pregnant after the loss of a child. You might find it interesting.
Best of luck to you.
2007-02-18 16:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Silly Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry about your loss my prayers go out to you. If you feel like you are ready to have a baby I say go for it. Babies are a wonderful gift from God and if your are blessed enough to have one I say go ahead and try.
2007-02-18 16:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by deebo21_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you feel ready for another pregnancy and delivery, as well as another baby, I'd say go for it. Otherwise, take your time, a baby is forever.
2007-02-18 16:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by ambiti0n_xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's worth a shot. However from my own personal experience.... They may make you have another c-section just to be safe. I had a c-section and about a year later they said I had to have another one with my second child. I definately say TRY AGAIN!! But make sure your doc thinks it's safe to deliver vaginally!
GOOD LUCK!!! MANY BLESSINGS!!!!
2007-02-18 16:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♥xvioletx1882♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
really sorry for your loss, are u really sure your ready not physically but mentally?? this must of been a very difficult and hard time for you both. i personally think it too soon its only been 7 months.i think you should give yourself more time.good luck to you in whatever you deside
2007-02-18 16:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you feel emotionally ready? I really can't say anything because this has never happened to me. I am so sorry!
2007-02-18 16:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by V8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋