Help about my sexuality?

Question

I know you guys probably see this a lot, but i'm so confused now, because most of the time when people are confused about their sexuality they're attracted to at least one of them sexually.

That's why i'm so confused... i'm not really attracted to either men or women sexually... i think naked guys are just disgusting, but with clothes on yeah they're really cute... but other than that, i can't even look at a naked guy without wanting to run in the other room. For women though, i'm more comfortable with, but still the whole nudity thing is kinda weird. But i think women are really, really pretty, and lately i've been noticing i've been liking a lot of my female friends...

Am i possibly bisexual? Do i just hate nudity? I am so confused...

Well... i'm all confused right now... my one friend who's trying to help me through this just pretty much told me she liked me yesterday... and we hung out for a bit, she's with another person but she's thinking of breaking up with her...

She gave me a kiss on the neck yesterday and well i kept thinking about it all day lol so i'm thinking i pretty much know for sure now...

It's just when it comes to anything sexual with either men or women... i dunno... i just don't want anything to do with it... =\

Answer 1

don't worry about labels, follow your heart

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Answer 2

Generally, men are less attractive than women when you put one next to the other and they are completely nude.

Obviously, women are gorgeous, and we see a lot more of them in magazines, movies, etc. So the idea of the "naked man" hasn't really caught on.

You being a woman also doesn't help, because a man's body is very foreign to you. I know a lot of men who LOVE the male body - the image. And they find it more erotic and beautiful than the female body.

But they are all men. This is not to say that women can't LOVE the male body, but generally this is not true.

I would say you are possible bisexual - but there is a scaled called the Kinsey scale (you can google that), and what that scale says is that, ultimately, EVERYONE is a little bisexual - some more than others.

Some are bisexual to the point in which they never really end up doing anything with anyone of the same sex. Some are more bisexual and actually carry through with the physical attraction.

There's nothing wrong with you. And you don't need to flaunt your sexuality. It's just something that IS. So take it with a grain of salt.

And if you enjoy the company of your female friends, and one of them sees you with more-than-interested eyes, then pursue it. Give it a try. And learn. That's what you must constantly do: learn.

So take it easy. Relax. And enjoy the view that you prefer.

Good luck.

Answer 3

I think your problem is mainly the nudity part. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and as an artist looks at the human body is all in their personal aesthetics. You know what you find attractive. But it is the sex smell that will tell if you like female, male or both. I am a lesbian but don't abhor the way a man smells. However, my partner cannot stand a man's bodily odor...sweat, sex smell, etc. It literally makes her stomach turn. We have many male friends and she can hug them, but most men she keeps very distant. Females find other females attractive because we understand each other. But if it comes down to the sex smell of a woman, you might not like it. Only time will tell, and hopefully you have alot of time to work it out. Relax and don't stress on the exploring, of your own body or others. I am not comfortable with nudity and could never be a nudist. My partner has been a nude model at the university. People are different. Find your way and then someone to share it with. Remember, true love knows no gender. Good luck.

Answer 4

Its not all that weird to hate nudity, I have a few friends that feel the same way about nudity and it doesn't mean you don't like either gender. Your just not comfortable with seeing people naked or being around nudity. Also its up to you and your heart and mind to decide if your straight/bi/gay, this won't stay confusing forever.

Answer 5

being naked can be intimidating. focus on making close friendships with people you can learn to trust and respect, and love will eventually come when the time is right. there is never any need to rush into sexual situations with anyone, nor do you need to rush to judgement about your sexual orientation.

you may want to seek out some female friends who are openly lesbian so you can discuss your feelings with them further and maybe they can help you decide whether you are infact lesbian or bi, or if you are just going thru a phase where you are confused..

if you like guys with clothes on, then that's a good sign too. you actually sound like me. i don't want sex until i really get to know someone and love them.. without that, it seems meaningless and yes being naked can seem disgusting.. lol

Answer 6

I'm straight, and I don't like looking at naked men's bodies. They're ugly. A female body is curvy and beautiful. It is frustrating for you to be confused, but you will figure it out soon enough. Don't rush yourself, just let it happen naturally.

Answer 7

I know a lot of straight women, myself included, who find a woman's nude body more attractive than a man's. Women's bodies are softer, more curvy, and generally more ascetically pleasing than men's. We are also more exposed to the woman's body culturally--women typically wear tighter, skimpier clothing, most ads feature female models, etc.--so we are more used to it.

Take your time in trying to sort out your feelings. You'll figure it all out eventually.

Answer 8

you might have hang-ups about sex.
I known some people who were molested and have had the same issue- but that's your business I won't ask that.

I don't think you can find a sexual prefrence until you can get over and figure out why nudity bothers you

Answer 9

You need therapy soon babe.

Answer 10

No, you are not bisexual. You are heterosexual.