2007-02-18 07:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by connie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When you feel like this, it's time for a reality check. There are bad things happening to everyone everywhere in this world; we are all in this together. But life also has goodness, beauty and happy surprises too! That's the way it is.
When something bad happens to you, there is often that feeling of shock and isolation which causes people to feel alienated from others. And then the mind starts reviewing all of the other bad things it can recall. However, we all have an instinct to survive our hurt; just look for the answers and react wisely.Take care ! A smart person once told me, "You have to work hard to be happy!"
2007-02-18 08:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Projection leads to attraction.. Karma
2007-02-18 07:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Soulfulgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Posted on: Sunday, February 18, 2007
Families grieve crash victims
By Mary Vorsino
Advertiser Staff Writer
The 2006 Suzuki SUV, after Thursday night's head-on crash on Kapa'a Quarry Road that killed two of its five female passengers.
REBECCA BREYER | The Honolulu Advertiser
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In a somber gathering yesterday, the first survivor of a fatal Kapa'a Quarry Road crash to be released from the hospital met with the grieving parents of 18-year-old Whitney Fergerstrom to recount their only child's final hours.
"We spoke to who we felt would have liked to have known," said Cindy Rocca, the mother of survivor Mia Archuleta, 19, who was released from Castle Medical Center on Friday. The families did not want to discuss details of the meeting between Archuleta, Rocca and Melanie Fergerstrom.
"We extended our condolences to them," Rocca said.
Archuleta, Shasteen Kahaunaele, 18, and a 15-year-old girl survived Thursday night's crash, which killed Fergerstrom and 18-year-old Leshay Gusman. All five are from the Neighbor Islands and met each other on O'ahu as boarding students at the Kamehameha Schools' Kapalama campus.
Rocca said Archuleta is struggling to deal with the accident, and the loss of her friends.
"She's doing fine physically," Rocca said. "Emotionally, she's having a difficult time."
Archuleta said she was not ready to talk to the media. But the answering message on her cell phone let friends know she was fine.
"I'm OK," she said on the message. "I'm just a little hurt."
In the wake of Thursday's crash, Kailua police were ticketing speeders along Kapa'a Quarry Road yesterday. Police did not release figures on how many speeders were snagged, but the crackdown comes as residents are also calling for safety improvements on the narrow, tree-lined roadway.
Police said the friends were riding in a sport utility vehicle on Kapa'a Quarry Road about 10:30 p.m. Thursday when it crashed into a pickup truck. The occupants of the truck, a 28-year-old man and a 35-year-old man, were last listed in serious condition at The Queen's Medical Center.
Kahaunaele, 18, was last listed in critical condition at Queen's. The 15-year-old girl was in serious condition.
Charae Galigo, 20, boarded with Kahaunaele at Kamehameha Schools. The two now attend the University of Hawai'i-Hilo.
Galigo said yesterday from Hilo that Kahaunaele is improving, and has been able to speak to a few friends. She said Kahaunaele went to O'ahu on Thursday to spend a weekend with friends, something she does a couple times a month.
When Galigo heard about the accident, "I was shocked," she said.
"You never expect people you know to be involved in something like this."
Galigo said she also attended Kamehameha with Fergerstrom and Gusman, but didn't know them well. She heard about the accident while trolling on MySpace.com, where friends had posted messages for the victims.
At the crash site yesterday, friends and family members tied butterfly balloons, a lei and a bouquet of flowers to a nearby sign.
Fergerstrom's aunt, Valerie, said the family is devastated at their loss.
"She was a wonderful girl. She was a good girl," said Fergerstrom, who last saw Whitney in September. "We're all pulling together."
Services for Fergerstrom are being handled by Nu'uanu Memorial Park & Mortuary, but the family asked they be kept private.
Services for Gusman have not been set.
In addition to Fergerstrom and Gusman, at least three other motorists have been killed on Kapa'a Quarry Road in the past 12 years.
In 1998, a 17-year-old girl was killed when the Nissan Sentra she was in lost control, hit a tree and rolled over. Three other girls in the car were injured.
2007-02-18 09:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by iguama808 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! ya totally!! it always feels like everything sucky happens to me and everyting good and lucky happens to evreyone around me!! it's always like i'm the unlucky person!!! it's like i'm the one tht was born to show how not to live or something!! i got used to it now though cuz it happens as often as breathing!!
2007-02-18 07:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
karma
2007-02-18 07:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by brentons9mm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes cuz all the ppl around me have it better.
2007-02-18 07:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by i hate undies! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yup i fill it everyday
2007-02-18 08:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by Pokahontaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋