sure, i have my family, but my sister moved out. and i feel as if my parents aren't proud of me or even care. i have friends, but i only hangout with a few outside of school. at the same time, i'm trying to stop being friends with my bestfriend of 4 years for she has been ignoring, using, and lying to me. i feel like no one understands what i'm going through and no matter how much i talk to my friends or hangout with them, i feel as if i'm incredibly lonely. please help me out.
2007-02-18 07:41:27 · 14 answers · asked by yourprettyhot123 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Hey, I do know what u are going through. I am 13 and have learned that God is always there and is always proud of me know matter what. If ur parentrs are the kind that u can talk to them and they will listen, u should try it.
This is only a faze and only u can make it worse. Try to look on the positve side of things. It wil take a while, but it really works.
2007-02-18 07:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything changes love, it is called experience and experience is the reason for living. To help you understand - find a photograph of yourself at a very young age but an age that you can remember, then stare at it and " really remember" how you felt about things then, you will see then how you have changed and will change again and these present feelings will change. Probably, if you try hard enough to remember a moment when you were little, you can remember a similar feeling then that you are going through now but about something else and you know that "went away". This will to,and because of your experience, and realising it is just that, an experience, a better understanding will come about future times when you feel again like this. If you have no photographs just close your eyes and remember the earliest time you can. By the way that is what lucky people have family and friends for - talking about their experiences, it really does help.
2007-02-18 08:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my dear you are surrounding yourself around the wrong people. that is obvious. as time goes byy people change. your best friend is not just the same person you knew her to be. some people become corrupt over time and you should not waste your time. as far as feeling lonley. there are millions of lonley people in this country. the best thing to do is to find someting you are interested in doing and join activities that other people have in common with you. do not sell yourelf short. you can always join after school activities. etc... take classes at a local college. such as a language corse. they offer those to even high school students. plan a trip to europe for the summer. i am sure you will enjoy yourself immensly there. as far as your parents go you need to sit with them and tell them how unapreciated and ignored you are feeling. i know it can be embaressing but hey having that dreadful conversation just might be the key to them paying more attention to you. your parents must care for you more then you really think conisdering you are not a ward of the state. parents who do not care for their kids usually give their kids into the foster care system. good luckto you and keep your head up. just be more opptimistic.
2007-02-18 07:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you're lonely. Your sister moved out, and you don't have your best friend anymore. If I were you, I'd talk to your parents about it, the counselor or a teacher at school, and keep hanging out with other friends. It does take a while to adjust to changes in relationships. I hope you can still keep in touch with your sister. Jesus does love you too. If you can, talking to a pastor too can't hurt. Good luck!
2007-02-18 07:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by suzieq_64093 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once you truly love yourself you wont be lonely.People will gravitate towards you because they will see your self confidence and feel your energy and loving spirit........also go out and just talk to different people and make friends..find people with similar interests and hang out.there is no one answer.get off the computer and do some thing you likeand dont worry for you will find loving people if you try.God will lead you to each other
2007-02-18 08:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lonely because you need to changelled what is causing you to feel this way. Someone that you trust in can help you understand why you are experiencing this type of problem.
2007-02-18 09:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to different people...You just have to figure out who you are and then find people like you. The more you think you are upset the more upset you will become by the way.
2007-02-18 07:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Josh S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same but im the one who cuts my friends off alot i think i might be able to help you out though email me through yahoo answers then ill give you me email i would give it here but alot of people could see it
btw sorry bout the rude answer you got from the loco chik
2007-02-18 08:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel much the same way you do sometimes its call Depression. See a Counselor/Doctor as soon as possible.
Wahoo!!!
2007-02-18 07:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone! God is with you always. I don't know if you are a believer, or not! I just wanted you to know that you will always have a friend in Jesus! He will never leave or forsake you if you turn to Him!
2007-02-18 07:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋