my friend and her fella have been together a couple of years.
we have always been a bit concerned about him.
he paints his nails bright colours and wears really tight tops. he says he isnt gay or bi but he camps it up alot and he owns all of steps albums. we have asked our friend a few times and she just laughs it off.
anyways i was out with my bestfriend last night and we saw him full on kissing a guy who we know is definatley gay. we had to look twice to make sure it was him. my friend even took a pic on her mobile.
should we tell and show our friend?
2007-02-18 07:34:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to him about it first, i don't know how close you are to him, but ask him what he was doing! Tell him it was unacceptable to kiss anyone while he is in a relationship, especially a guy when he claims he is not bi/gay. Tell him that you are going to tell your friend, or you will give him the chance to talk it through with her.
2007-02-19 03:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Soph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy what you know and give him an opportunity to come clean to your friend first before you tell her anything.
Is there any chance he's bi-sexual and this is something your friend might be aware of or comfortable with? We don't all know what our friends are really into
2007-02-18 23:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by bumpity-bump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you NEED to tell her. She may take it badly, and even say she hates you, but she will thank you in the end. As long as you have the evidence, she will have to listen to what you have to say.
2007-02-19 04:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it might break her heart about this man it would also break her heat to know her friends lied and didn't tell her. hes taking her for a fool. be a friend and tell. good luck
2007-02-18 20:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by lady z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her. it's your duty as her friend to look out for her
2007-02-19 00:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell her..show her the picture...honesty is the best policy
2007-02-18 20:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with your friends
2007-02-18 19:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by chillipope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this guy lying to his gf, you, and to himself!...you have to show her!
2007-02-18 22:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋