why do we all seem to love but yet we all get hurt? is love really that good for us? why cant we control it? is it worth loving when hurt is only goin to be the outcome??
2007-02-18 07:32:42 · 12 answers · asked by lipz20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the old saying goes.. "its better to love and lost... than to never of loved at all" at least you know how to love...the other person just sucks at it...when you find the right person...you will be happy... and just know what comes around goes around...the other person will get it back one day for sure...
2007-02-18 07:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by gina B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club - you're a female and men don't realise the meaning of love until they are ugly and can't catch another female. At that point they decide to love the female back and try to get the brownie points they didn't need when they were younger and better looking!! Men eventualy mature and life gets better so you do not hurt all the time. Even though I say this, I have to submit that you must watch them always *** they are in reality total *** holes.
2007-02-18 07:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by freddy the newf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
We call it Love but it really is a series of chemical reactions in the brain in order to help us find a suitable person to mate with. We cant control it because it not a tangable thing, whether or not it is good for us is each persons perspective and its worth loving because with each bad experience it makes us appreciate the 'real thing' when it comes along!!
rX
2007-02-18 07:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a natural instict for humans. We love because it's human nature, and even if we have to go through breakups sometimes, we still have to find more love, even if it's from our family. If someone breaks up with you, we feel sad, hurt, and sometimes angry, but after a while, we normally get over it and find more people to fall in love with. If you get hurt by somebody, it takes time to heal that emotional hurt, but we eventually get over it. There is more to love than meets the eye.
2007-02-18 07:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sam U. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts but it is a beautiful thing if you have the right person to love...Its not something that you can control...it sneaks up on you like a fox and bites you in the azz!!!
2007-02-18 07:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very natural to love......its an inseperable part of us!....if u're hurt in love then i cant technically call dat love.....coz wen u're in love its frm both the sides....u cant force it to happen!
love surely is good 4 us...it helps us to grow into a better person emotionally and mentally......even though there would be times wen 1 woulda been hurt.....yet it ends up in makin u more stronger for next time
love is uncontrollable....n thats the beauty of it!!!!......if ur parents controlled their love for each other u would'nt have been here today!...
ofcourse its worth loving.....n i'd like to correct u....even though u have downs in life but there will surely be a time when u'd be on cloud 9.......u'll just have to wait......love comes softly n u'll noe it as soon as it happens..........and remember there r many fish in the sea.........u just have to wait to get a good catch!
2007-02-18 07:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by dia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think we love because at the time we think we like the person,and at the time you dont think they re going to hurt you. i think love is good for us cuz,if u never fell in love u would never meet anyone or have the experience,and wouldnt know what its like.
2007-02-18 07:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by shaggy_srmc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the human condition, love suggests a soul and a sould suggests more meaning to life than 70 years on a polluted planet,
2007-02-18 07:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by orfeo_fp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the more we love or rather the deeper we love the harder it is when we loose it. Love is Pain! and we are made to want to be in relationships, that is why.
2007-02-18 07:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are loving beings. I think this is like asking: Why be born if we are all going to die?
2007-02-18 07:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋