Well heres the jist of it.. Im not married but my man is (we are serisous we live together and share everything)He's married to his x girl for insurance reasons only (shes got alot of health probs and cant get insurance unless she wants to pay out her ***..her old insurance company dropped her) It didn't used to bug me when we 1st started datin.. (been seenin each other yr and half) But here recently i cant stand the dumb *****. I want him to divorce her so we can get more serisous. He keeps tellin me that when the time is right he'll divorce her and marry me... but he also tells me that he's not ready to get married. ( i just laugh at him and walk away when he does that) I think hes bein a hippicrit..
I Dont know what to do anymore.. Please give me some advise!!
2007-02-18 07:19:40 · 7 answers · asked by frog_giggin_countrygirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he loves you that much and has finished with her, why should he be bothered about her situation... you are his priority not her, whether he does want to re-marry or not. put this to him, see where his loyalties lay.
2007-02-18 07:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you already know what to do here. You're absolutely right, he's a hipocrite, and if you believe him when he says he'll marry you when he divorces her, then you're twice a fool, because he's not going to divorce her, nor marry you. You're also living with him, so he honestly has absolutely no incentive TO marry you. Get out of this relationship while you still have a shred of self-respect left, and next time...LEAVE MARRIED MEN ALONE!!!! They are seriously nothing but trouble!
2007-02-18 15:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm- sounds like a winner- shacking up with one woman while married to another to commit insurance fraud. What a catch- lucky you.
2007-02-18 15:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't love you enough to divorce his first wife, then he isn't worth your company. I advise you to find someone willing to treat you better than that. That's just my opinion; it's really up to you.
2007-02-18 15:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Persephone 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is not willing to get serious then consider what is best with some good advice from someone you trust.
2007-02-18 15:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
walk away. don't wait for him.he most likely will never walk from her. he is using her as his excuse, later he may find another one. tell him when he's free free, look you up. you should see other people.
2007-02-18 15:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by wendy b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's time for you to move on.
2007-02-18 16:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋