Over the last 6 months I've felt a connection between me and my friend. On numerous occasions she has stroked my leg, squeezed my breasts and paid me lots of compliments over the way I looked. Sometimes we stare into each others eyes - it's intense!
At xmas we got drunk and she kissed me. The same night we cuddled in her bed and she let me stroke her navel and her lips. She wrapped her leg over my navel. We've now done this twice.
I'm so just so confused because sometimes she seems really distant from me and doesn't seem interested at all, and other times she touches me and makes innuendos.
The problem is that I've fallen for her big time now and the mixed signals are killing me. I'm too frightened to tell her I'm bi in case I lose her friendship.
Sometimes I think she is frightened of what she feels for me and so she distances herself from me. I just don't know how to handle this anymore. Has anyone got any advice?
2007-02-18 07:13:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
stop wasting time and go for it.
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2007-02-22 06:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are darn waiting for a girl to be at your stage of state of mind. Whereas some guys are probably sick of the amount of girls who want to die with him. Its all about the timing and the precision. So you moved a little bit too fast. Well, yes, not good enough might be a reason. So, if you wanna convince yourself to move on, this is the best reason to assume. And forget everything and just move on. Lets take a look though, before we regret doing things. Do you, actually have 10 more better options? No offense, if you do have, I do not think you will be thinking about this issue. In fact, it wouldn't even be an issue, because you wouldn't be paying a f**king attention to this guy here who's thinking you're second best. now, assuming that you don't have 10 more other guys who are better than him to entertain, but just random dudes walking around at random order that you KNOW nuts about, I guess this issue here that you're having is probably the most important guy. Great. Now, if your world doesn't revolve around this guy. What does? OKay, you've got your own life, and such. Great. Its a bonus. Lets put it this way, you've got nothing to lose. I think you should just play along, have fun. But start seeing other guys. Since he's so slow at analysing stuff anyways. I mean, if you went on with the direct confrontation, you're losing your whole portfolio thing of him being MAYBE good for you or somethin, you would have just cut it off. Now, consider you played along, and just went out with him occasionally, you'd still have a chance in his consideration. OKay, fine, lets take it that you're the super cocky type. Then, just bust his balls and say it out loud. I'm interested in you. Lets move on, or forget it. Cause I don't got all day to wait for this to happen. =) As simple as that. Why do guys have commitment problems? At times its the guy who doesn't know whether he can treat you right and he doesn't know if you're the serious type if you're always too playful in front of him. Otherwise, its okay. Another thing is, yea, you might be right, he's got 10 other girls to choose from, and he just don't know. So he plans to f*** every one of them and then ask his pen*s like, " hey, which one felt better?? " Yea, you get me alright. So, you either ask him and risk this thing ( if you don't have the time of your life or you're the direct straight forward kind ) or you delay it like he does, and you move on in life, but entertain him though. YOu will lose nothing.
2016-05-24 03:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i have to say i'm in a very similar situation... except the person i like hasn't gone that far with me lol but she gives off mixed signals all the time...
I definately say you should try and talk to her about it. If she's a good friend, she'll stick around if she doesn't feel the same... though i'm pretty sure she does, because all that seems like logical proof.
Have you tried subtle jokes with her?... Like, "hey, when are we gonna go out?" and stuff. If she goes along with it, that could be another sign... if not, just say you were just joking or something lol.
I suggest you definately make a move! =]
2007-02-18 07:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Rain Come Soon... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is more than possible that your friend is into you--why else would she let you feel her up or touch you?
Comeon now--just ask her flat out!
2007-02-18 07:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by belligerent assistant 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You both are participating in disgusting perverted behavior. Just stop it. What kind of friend.. male or female... gropes and kisses you. Not a platonic friend.
2007-02-18 07:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by mandingostud 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
ask her out. show her tat you love her. thats the way to go
2007-02-18 07:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by larry b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make your move... the intimacy you describe is extreme. she would not do this if she did not want you sexually
2007-02-18 07:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by larrydoyle52 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop being a lesbian anf find a real an to f u c k you
2007-02-18 07:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋